Ashley Elizabeth (Wood) Picco & Lennon James Picco

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Ashley Elizabeth (Wood) Picco, wife, mother, nurse, helper, and dear friend, died Saturday, November 8, 2014 in Loma Linda, CA. She was 30.

Her life of service, like a melody, pure and sweet, began at Kaiser Vallejo July 16th 1984. The harmonies will continue to resonate in our hearts and memories.

She spent her childhood in Napa until age twelve, when she moved to Orangevale until fifteen. Moving back to Napa, and graduating from Vintage High School in 2002, her caring heart led her to a career in serving others. In the months following the attacks on 9/11/01, Ashley took her desire for outreach, and caring for those in need, to New York City. There she spent her senior year Spring Break volunteering at Ladder 10 Fire Station at Ground Zero, where that engine company is famous for its bronze memorial wall celebrating their heroes. It was there she met her future husband, Chris Picco, who was also volunteering in the relief efforts.

And our Ashley has become our hero too, living meaningfully and fully, leaving the fragrance of a short life, but well lived.

So, Chris and Ashley joined their mutual love for helping others, marrying August 19th, 2007. They continued their friendship relationships, bringing joyous life and music to their circles of influence. Making things better by their presence and talent, they planned a shared life of usefulness and endeavor. This was beautifully exemplified by her work at Loma Linda Children’s Center for four years. Taking her love and compassion for others even further, she obtained a nursing degree from Riverside Community College in 2012. Before she herself became a mother, she helped young mothers with lactation counseling, planning someday to cherish her own little one.

Their baby boy Lennon James was much anticipated. He was due February 22, 2015. His family shared his short life, born November 8, 2014. But he passed away, bathed in prayer, surrounded by family and friends November 11th of that week.

Our dear Ashley’s life was tragically, devastatingly cut short this past weekend. Her dear baby flickered briefly for a few days after.

But her song continues, the harmony enriching our lives, still, to be continued until in the Heavenly Kingdom, when we will all sing the Song of Moses and the Lamb. And Lennon James will add his sweet voice to the family reunion on Resurrection day, as daddy Chris joins in the most precious of all songs he sang in his life, and all the praying friends and family will join in lifting their Hallelujahs for eternity.

New anthems to write, new songs to sing, and no more loss, parting, pain or sorrow.

In addition to her husband Chris, Ashley is survived by her mother Elizabeth Wood and father Jon Wood; brother Joshua Wood; grandmother Darryl House; aunts Sandra McCloskey, Victoria (and David) Rugg, and Janice Wood; uncles Jim (and Linda) Wood; Jeff Wood, Todd (and Kristie) House; many cousins, and countless grieving and supportive friends around the world.

Ashley’s light shone far, her song was heard, and her sweet personality and gentle giving soul inspired us, and will continue to do so. Your life mattered, Ashley. And much-loved baby boy Lennon James, we will see you again. You belonged to all of us.

394 thoughts on “Ashley Elizabeth (Wood) Picco & Lennon James Picco”

  2. Without you, Ashley, there is a little less sunshine in daytime, but a new star in our sparkling Heavens. Until we meet again…. Love and many prayers, Aunt Gina & Uncle Mark

  3. its with tears of sadness that I type these words! Having never known Ashley, only her husband Chris, the words of the author of this memorial says it all! A person dedicated to God, filled with Hos Spirit can change the world one person at a time!! When that day shall come one phrase will sum Ashley’s life up-” well done thou good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of thy Lord!”
    May those memories and that commitment be with Chris, Lennon and the whole family as you wait for that glorious day!! May God’s eternal peace rest on you all!!!!!!

  4. Ashley cared for our son, Jonathan, when he was at the Children’s Center. He absolutely adored her and we knew ourselves so lucky to have someone who loved our son too. We are devastated to hear this news and our family is praying for Ashley’s family, especially for Chris.

  6. We are so saddened to learn of this incredible loss. We are praying for Chris, Lennon, and Ashley’s family and friends.

  7. I pray for peace and healing for family and friends may our lord God comfort you and keep you in the hollow of his hands. In Jesus name
    Amen

  8. A dear and sweet young lady who was and is greatly loved. She is missed and we look forward to
    being in Lennon’s life as he grows.

  9. Such a beautiful tribute to a wonderful young woman whose life has been such a blessing to so many! Praying God’s arms of love be around all her loved ones.

  10. Dear Chris and family,
    Words cannot express how sorry we are that you are without your dear wife, Ashley. We are praying for you and the rest of the family and especially for little Lennon James. Love from Dave and Yvonne.

  11. It will be the little things
    that you will remember,
    the quiet moments,
    the smiles, the laughter.
    And although it may seem
    hard right now,
    it will be the memories
    of these little things
    that help to push
    away the pain
    and bring the smiles
    back again.

  12. Dear Darryl and family, I just want to express my sorrow at your loss and let you know that we are all praying for all of you.

  13. I remember Ashley as one of our nursing students at RCC and am so sorry to hear that God chose to take her home at such a young age. I pray for you Chris and for your son Lennon who is fighting for his life. Ashley lived her life fully and touched many lives in a meaningful way and she will be greatly missed. Her light shined bright while she was among us. She has completed her purpose here on Earth and is now at home with our heavenly father. There are no words of comfort that anyone can offer that will help you at this difficult time. I pray that God will give you the strength to get through this tragic loss and to be there for your son Lennon, who will need you more than ever. I will keep you, your son, and Ashley’s family in my prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that your faith will be tested through this difficult time but know that God understands your sorrow and is with you. My sincerest condolences, Angie Fawson Professor, Nursing RCC

  14. My heart breaks over the tragic loss of Ashley. My heart aches for little Lennon. Our own son was in the NICU as a 26 weeker, so I understand the uncertainty of the next moment. The whole Picco family is in my thoughts and prayers.

  15. What has transpired is just too difficult for us to grasp-a wonderful person taken away so tragically from her family! Your dreams are unfulfilled. May you sense God’s arms lovingly embrace you. As you care for Lennon, may your labours be rewarded. Our prayers are extended to you, Chris, yours and Ashley’s families. How reassuring is the promise of the Great Resurrection!

  16. I’m saddened to hear this news. Although I have never met the family, the tribute I have just read has really touched my heart. I will continue to keep you all, family and friends, in my prayers at this devastating time! To the family hold on to the reality of heaven in your time of grief and the hope that one day you will see her, smell her, hold her and rejoice with her and our Creator. We have this hope! God bless

    Love Sophia

  17. Our deepest sympathy to you Chris, and yours and Ashley’s families . We are so sorry to hear of this news . Ashley sounded like an amazing wife, friend , and mother to be . Our thoughts are with you and your baby boy during this time .

  18. Dear Chris, You & Ashley will always be remembered for the sweet music that you made together in the life in
    which you
    harmonized
    your talents &
    dreams–from
    the beginning in NYC after
    9/11, where you met while
    serving others.
    I remember you both, too,
    for so kindly
    helping to
    change my
    blown tire by
    LLU Church–so
    typical of your desires to help
    others. You
    have so
    bravely shared
    your intimate
    experiences
    with us in
    touching
    photos & sweet
    songs to tiny,
    precious
    Lennon. My
    heart breaks
    for you & your
    family & for
    Ashley’s
    family, Chris; I
    pray that our
    Father, who
    knows your
    unimaginable
    grief, will give
    you comfort &
    a song to sing
    until the day
    His son, Jesus,
    comes back
    for you & an
    angel bears little Lennon
    James to
    Ashley’s & your
    arms! I can’t wait to watch him grow up with our Savior & our Abba! Sharon King

  19. How wonderfully and truthfully written. Ashley was sweet in every way…all the time. We all look forward to heaven someday when the great reunion will take place. Until then, Ashley and Lennon will be remembered in our hearts forever.

  21. Hey chris,
    You may not know me, but ive heard you play at relive and at la sierra while i was a student there at lsu. Words cannot express how much you and your family are hurting. However, I do know that God is there for us constantly and will be there for you continuously. Not only that a huge community is here for you and will continue to pray for you. I hope that God will give you comfort and peace in knowing that you will see them soon. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Blessings,
    Natalie

  22. My heart breaks with the knowledge of such a tragic loss. I continue my prayers for you Chris. When I first joined LLUC I was blessed by your music. May our Savior minister to you through that very same avenue to the soul.

  23. I too have never met these people, yet have been impacted by their story. God has proven himself in their witness and life in service for Him. May all those effected hold fast to the precious goodness, comfort and strength that gives life and knows the end from the beginning. Thank God this life is only temporal, may we learn to cherish the good and with God’s help accept the pain. For God has promised better things where testimonies and stories, joys and experiences will live on forever. Please accept my condolences and know that you have touched my heart, and look forward even more to the day pain shall be no more.

  24. Chris and family’s,
    Since I have heard your story from my mom you and your family haven’t left our prayers. May you take comfort in your memories, and knowing you will be reunited with your beautiful wife and son.
    Tammy Dominey and Jean Dominey

  25. Is difficult to say something, I have my eyes filled with tears; I am convinced that there is a reason for all the facts, but I honestly do not get to see the reason for this precise situation. Sending, from Argentina, my deepest sympathy and my respect to all loved ones of Ashley & Lennon James.-

  26. Chris, I’ve never met you, Ashley, or your son, but the tribute to both of them is a testament to your strength and love that God has given you in this the most difficult of times. Your love for them will endure forever, and on that wonderful day when the Good Lord takes you into his loving embrace, you will be able to see their smiling faces again. The Lord gives
    and takes away, but it is all part of his plan for you, Ashley, and Lennon. Right now in this very moment, all of you are
    affecting peoples lives, giving inspiration to others, where they might not have it. Chris, you are in my prayers, you are
    the definition of what a Man of God is supposed to be. All my love.

    Patrick

  27. It is heartbreaking losing these precious lives when they are so much loved and needed most. Unimaginable to think that dear Mr.Picco to survive this ordeal. My utmost condolences and prayers are for you and your family.

  28. Even though I am just reading about this on the internet, I was moved to tears by this. Such amazing love and l

  29. I don’t know your family but I feel your pain I am so sorry for your loss of your wife and son. I hope you find peace knowing they are together sadly not with their family here .With tears for your family I hope within time your heart will heal and you can remember them and be grateful for the time you had with both of them

  30. It isn’t easy having to lose a loved one; harder having to lose two. My heart goes out to you Chris and the Wood family. I hope your hearts will mend with ease through all this and that you find peace. Just know that you have many people here to support you and will pray for Ashely and Lennon. For now, Ashely will be a mother to your sweet baby boy in Heaven. You will all be in my prayers.

  31. I haven’t seen my baby since she was 3 months old, my sister refuses to contact me or give her anything from me. My brother was molested as a kid, and my adopted family was so neglecting and abusive that they never noticed anything strange in his behavior towards me. My parents left me abandoned with Celiac and ptsd at 16. I Know how it feels to have a family that lives in heaven. I Know that God puts people in our path. I hope that you have a fresh helping of courage and love every morning for breakfast

  32. I haven’t seen my first baby since she was 3 months old, my sister refuses to contact me or give her anything from me. My brother was molested as a kid, and my adopted family was so neglecting and abusive that they never noticed anything strange in his behavior towards me. My parents left me abandoned with Celiac and ptsd at 16. I Know how it feels to have a family that lives in heaven. I Know that God puts people in our path. I hope that you have a fresh helping of courage and love every morning for breakfast

  34. I do not know your family but from this day forward I hold all of you in my heart. I will try to live my life with more grace and attention. Our time here is so precious. Peace to all.

  36. Sending love and prayers to your beautiful family. All will be well. Good spirits are with all of you. They are resting in peace and your life will continue to be bountiful and your wife and child are with you always.

  38. We are seemingly strangers, but are family in the household of faith. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. What peace to know you 3 will meet again.

  39. Your tragic story has travelled as far as Glasgow Scotland. Prayers for you all at this heartbreaking time.

  40. Having read your families story and seeing Chris sing to Lennon is so personal and loving, thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us. Even in the sorrow you are all experiencing you are still making the world a better place. In my heart and in my prayers….

  41. To Chris and family,

    May God grant you all strength and comfort through this difficult time so that you may be able to pass it on to others in similar times.

  42. I´m so sorry for your loss. There are absolutely no words to make you feel at ease but I hope you find the light you need to go through this.

  43. Pffff. I can hardly breath. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope for a swift healing of your mind and heart. Stay strong!

  44. I will be praying for the spirit of the Lord to be upon you Chris and family. Your beautiful wife and son are now united in the presence of God.

  45. I too do not know your family but I am saddened to read this. Chris, my heart breaks for you for the loss of your wife and son. Please know that not only is your family there for you but we are too, strangers, because this story is being told around the world. Both lives were taken way too soon and it is tragic. As a musician and someone who had a stillbirth, I used music to help me heal. Nothing will ever replace your wife and child, but obviously your music helps you. Let it continue to help you heal. My sincere and profound condolences. God bless.

  46. I hadn’t heard of any of you or your family until today, but I wanted to let you know that I will be thinking of you. I can’t even imagine the pain you must be going through right now, but I hope time heals your wounds as much as possible and that you know that you aren’t alone. God bless.

  47. Deepest prayers for Chris. May heavenly father be with the entire family and meet all their needs. This memorial was so well written, us strangers can share in the light that Ashley was. God Bless all of you, Chris, parents, friends.

  49. Revlation 21:3,4 – “And God will wipe every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning, nor outcry, nor pain anymore. The former things have passed away.”

  50. This, along with your Blackbird video, is one of the most beautiful tributes I’ve ever experienced. I don’t know you, but you are my brother, Chris. May God bless and comfort you in this time of grief!

  51. We cannot know the pain you are going through. One day you will move on but will remember, one day you will turn a corner and find love again but you will remember. You are in our thoughts.

  52. No words…just sorrow and prayer on such an unimaginable loss of a mother and her child…so sad for the father left behind….May he find peace and comfort in family and friends.

  53. Dear Chris.

    Deeply heartfelt sympathies to You, Your, Ashley and Lennon’s family, loved ones, friends, caregivers and supporters.
    Your Life’s losses have been shared on social media and are touching thousands of people’s hearts.
    Tears of Compassion…Heartbreak…Love…are falling for what was and what has been lost.
    There are no magic words to soothe You in your tremendous grief….I am thinking many would be desperate to utter them to you….
    Please accept my sincere compassion at this excruciatingly difficult time in your life.
    I also wish to symbolically give you a piece of my heart….as you, Ashley and Lennon will always be in it.
    I live in Toronto Canada. At the time I read your story and watched the video of your lovely Blackbird to Lennon, it was just going on 5 pm here.
    All day it’s been overcast and cloudy. The sky has been cold and grey.
    As I was being connected to your family on Facebook, a hint of oranges and pinks suddenly appeared on the horizon. Just a soothing smidge of colour.
    As I continued to read, my dark room was suddenly lit by a huge beam of orange. Outside…the full sun appeared….burnt orange and fuschia….completely taking the stage in the grey sky. A miraculous sunset.
    I associated the thought of it with the thoughts of You, Ashley and Lennon.

    And that is how I will continue to send you my consoling and caring thoughts Mr Picco.
    From the 14th floor of a small condo in Toronto Canada, you all will be thought about with each sunset.

    I will add prayer and a lit candle for the Peace that all of your souls will be needing.

    With Loving Heart and Kindness,
    Ela

  54. I was deeply moved by the tributes & kind words said about Ashley & sweet, sweet Lennon as God calls them home. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
    -Rachel Eckols
    Marion, Il

  55. I was deeply moved by the tributes & kind words said about Ashley & sweet, sweet Lennon. My thoughts & prayers are with you.
    -Rachel Eckols
    Marion, Il

  56. Dear Chris.

    Deeply heartfelt sympathies to You, Your, Ashley and Lennon’s family, loved ones, friends, caregivers and supporters.
    Your Life’s losses have been shared on social media and are touching thousands of people’s hearts.
    Tears of Compassion…Heartbreak…Love…are falling for what was and what has been lost.
    There are no magic words to soothe You in your tremendous grief….I am thinking many would be desperate to utter them to you….
    Please accept my sincere compassion at this excruciatingly difficult time in your life.
    I also wish to symbolically give you a piece of my heart….as you, Ashley and Lennon will always be in it.
    I live in Toronto Canada. At the time I read your story and watched the video of your lovely Blackbird to Lennon, it was just going on 5 pm here.
    All day it’s been overcast and cloudy. The sky has been cold and grey.
    As I was being connected to your family on Facebook, a hint of oranges and pinks suddenly appeared on the horizon. Just a soothing smidge of colour.
    As I continued to read, my dark room was suddenly lit by a huge beam of orange. Outside…the full sun appeared….burnt orange and fuschia….completely taking the stage in the grey sky. A miraculous sunset.
    I associated the experience of it with thoughts of You, Ashley and Lennon.

    And that is how I will continue to send you my consoling and caring thoughts Mr Picco.
    From the 14th floor of a small condo in Toronto Canada, you all will be thought about with each sunset.

    I will add prayer and a lit candle for the Peace that all of your souls will be needing.

    With Loving Heart and Kindness,
    Ela

  57. Like other’s on this page, I don’t know you or your family, but know a little of the pain you are experiencing. My twins were born 3 months early, one survived and one passed away. I know the heartache you are going through with losing a child, but to have that coupled with losing your wife…Like I said, I don’t know you but my heart is breaking for you and your family.

  58. Chris and family I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace knowing Ashley is in heaven take care on of Lennon just as she did here. God Bless your family. Your words and singing touched me deeply that’s what true love is.

  59. There are two new stars in the sky: one named Ashley and one Lennon. May their light be forever with and around you. Peace my friend!

  60. Dear Chris, I don’t know you or your family, but my heart goes out to you at this difficult time. Your wife was beautiful, and from what I’ve read here, both inside as well as outside. The “Blackbird” video touched my heart, and I fully believe little Lennon knew that was his daddy singing him a loving lullaby. I am so very sorry for your loss, and wish you peace. And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.

  61. I read this story on Buzzfeed with tears in my eyes and streaming down my cheeks. Words cannot express how terribly sorry I am for this tragic loss. I’m not able to make a donation at this time as I’m disabled and have no money, but I felt the need to reach out to your family and loved ones. I will keep you all in my heart and in my prayers during this painful time.

  62. My heart aches for you. I pray you find comfort from those who love Ashley, Lennon and you.

    Peace and blessings.

  63. My prayers to the surviving members of this little family. May God comfort you and be your strength during this bittersweet time. It’s very obvious that Ashley and little baby Lennon were well-loved during their life here on earth. May Chris continued to be surrounded by that love, too, and find peace in the fact that he will be reunited one day with Ashley and Lennon. All the love in the world to you!

  64. This is so sad and upsetting. I do not know you personally however as a mother myself I cannot imagine this devastation. Rest in peace beautiful Ashley and Lennon. Chris you are doing them both proud. Brought a tear to my eye reading this, you will meet them again soon and they will be watching over you chris smiling, always.

  65. Ashley was clearly a bright light in this world..now she is shining in Heaven with her Lennon..may they Rest Peacefully. I’m so sorry, Mr. Picco, for your losses. May the Lord be with you during this sad time that you may know His Peace. Keep singing.

  66. I do not know your family, but my heart goes out to you. As the Greeks say, “May their memories be eternal”
    Ζωή σε σας, αιώνια μνήμες.

  69. I’m sorry for the loss of your little one. I found or saw it on my phone on the news and went to Y-tube and showed the video where the father was singing to his son. Again I’m truely sorry but the sweet angels are looking down on him.

  70. Our heartfelt prayers go out to you Chris and your family for the loss of Ashley and Lennon. We had a similar experience and although we lost baby Nicole, her mother Lynn survived the surgery and went on to have 4 healthy daughters

  71. My heart is broken after reading this. May God bless Ashley and Lennon… To Chris, stay strong, brother. My prayers are with you and your family.

  72. Today as I was sitting in my car to leave my doctor’s appointment my daughter texted me the video of Chris singing to Lennon. I clearly could not drive anywhere because of the tears. This young man has lost his wife and son and all I can think is how much strength it has taken for him to get through this week and he still made time to make sure to thank others for thinking of him. I pray for all of the family, friends who will be feeling this loss. Please know that the world has seen her story and her son’s and I hope you can feel the huge hug we are all giving you. I pray that God gives each of you strength and peace to get through the coming days. Thank you for sharing their story.

  74. Rest assured Lennon may have left your arms but really feel Ashley was there to embrace your son and he will forever be with Mommy <3 UNTIL u meet again….Be well Chris, many have shared tears with you- Bless ur heart.

  75. I am a complete stranger to this family, but my heart breaks for you all. This memorial was written so beautifully. It really touched my heart. You sang my favorite John Lennon song so well…It was really amazing.. Sending hugs & prayers from NJ.

  76. i pray that thru your grief you are able to lean on Jesus who will always be there for you. When you feel you can’t go on lift your hands toward heaven putting your hand in his allow him to carry youu in this time. remember he will never leave you or forsake you. saying sorry for your lost is not right but please know that it will take a very long time but the pain will not ache as much as it does now. she was beautiful

  78. Chris, I just read your story and I’m heartbroken for you and your family. We never know why God calls the young home but we have to have faith in knowing that He has a plan. Continue to live your life in honor of Ashley and your son Lennon. May God continue to bless you and keep you.

  79. Very tragic all the way around. Please try not to let it harden your heart. Loved your ‘Blackbird’ video. Drove me to tears. Many join you in your suffering. Don’t worry, man. You got this.

  81. Chris, I have read your story and I am so touched by the overwhelming support many are sending you. Such a heartbreaking loss for you and your family. You strength is being tested at this time. I pray for God to keep you strong, for the angels to surround you with comforting love and faith. May family and friends be by your side to help you through this difficult time. There are no words to make this better. Only time will lessen the impact of sorrow in your heart. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

    May peace be with you.

  82. Such a sad story.But one filled with so much love.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all
    Ashley I never knew you but as a nurse we have common ground. May you be at peace with your beautiful baby Lennon.
    From a nurse across the pond x x

  83. My deepest condolences on the loss of Ashley and Lennon, you singing to your son was deeply touching to watch. Sending prayers to you and your family .

  84. So sorry for the loss of this wonderful young lady and beautiful little angel. Keeping her family and friends in my prayers. God bless you all. Tyner, n.c.

  85. Would any of you equate this precious woman’s life, a woman who gave everything, to the life of a convicted child rapist and murderer? What about that perfect child who was with his family for only days? That is what many death penalty opponents want you to accept. You may not think this is an appropriate space/time for this but when something so precious as these two are snatched away without notice I believe that IS the time to confront the enormous evil that is being masked as good.
    Just a thought.

  86. Chris,
    You met the perfect lady and had the best love story — a love story most people only imagine about, read in books or see in the movies. Ashley was one of those people deemed to do G-d’s work on earth. She will continue doing G-d’s work in heaven — of course, with her beautiful son, Lennon, by her side. They will be waiting for you — ONLY when your job on earth is over. You have many MORE great things to do here. G-d has his reasons for everything. We are not supposed to understand why he does what he does. But … I think he allowed Ashley and Lennon to be here for as long as they were because he wanted his children on earth to meet untainted, PERFECT people. Ashley and Lennon have changed the world with their gifts of presence, kindness, love.
    To Ashley’s family and friends,
    God loves you and gave you a gift by giving you the honor of knowing these beautiful souls, Ashley and Lennon. With Ashley’s wisdom, she chose Chris to be her partner. I know this is a very sad time for all of you. I was crying when I was reading about Ashley and her life. She made a TRUE difference in this world. She was a NURSE all her life — not just for the four years she practiced in the hospital — but in life — even when she was a child.
    Take care and know that their light will always be with you — illuminating hope, happiness and love.
    Continue living the life Ashley and Lennon would want you to live — a GOOD life, filled with love, good deeds and smiles.
    Know that Ashley and Lennon are smiling at you from heaven.
    All my best — always,
    Sharon

  87. I am a complete stranger to this family too….my heart breaks….be sure you will meet again in heaven….much love to you and your family from Reidun in Trondheim, Norway.

  90. My heart is heavy for you and your family during this difficult time. I am sending heartfelt prayers, love and God’s Blessings to you.

  91. I ran across the youtube video from a local radio station in sacramento. I do not know Chris or Ashley but it upon watching the video burst into instant tears. I am just recently married and 8 months pregnant and could not imagine what Chris is going through. Ashley sounded like an amazing person from this beautifully written memorial. May you find some peace in knowing that Your wife and Son are together peacefully. ♡

  92. God be with you and your loved ones. My sincerest thoughts and prayers go out to you and the ones who wait for you now in Heaven.

  93. Ashley was truly an angel on earth, wishing there were more angels on earth like her. Blessings to all her family and friends at this difficult time. Thank you for sharing and I will keep this in my heart and prayers.

  95. For Chris Picco:

    Fragile Circle
    “We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle, easily and often breached. Unable to accept its awful gaps, we still would live no other way. We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully understanding the necessary plan.”-Irving Townsend

    “Nothing is so strong as gentleness and nothing is so gentle as true strength.” -Ralph W. Sockman

    “Faith is taking the first step even when you can’t see the whole staircase.” – Martin Luther King Jr.

    You can shed tears that she is gone
    Or you can smile because she has lived
    You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back
    Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left
    Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her
    Or you can be full of the love that you shared
    You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
    Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday
    You can remember her and only that she is gone
    Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on
    You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
    Or you can do what she would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on. -Anonymous

    For Ashley Elizabeth & Lennon James Picco:

    “The child must know that he is a miracle, that since the beginning of the world there hasn’t been, and until the end of the world there will not be, another child like him.” -Pablo Casals

    “It is not length of life, but depth of life.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson

  97. I don’t know you Chris or your and Ashley’s families. I am deeply saddened by this tragic news. Sending prayers and (((((((hugs))))))) to each one of you as you all mourn the deaths of Ashley and Lennon.

  98. For Chris Picco:

    Fragile Circle
    “We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own, live within a fragile circle, easily and often breached. Unable to accept its awful gaps, we still would live no other way. We cherish memory as the only certain immortality, never fully understanding the necessary plan.”-Irving Townsend

    “Nothing is so strong as gentleness and nothing is so gentle as true strength.” -Ralph W. Sockman

    “Faith is taking the first step even when you can’t see the whole staircase.” – Martin Luther King Jr.

    You can shed tears that she is gone
    Or you can smile because she has lived
    You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back
    Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left
    Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her
    Or you can be full of the love that you shared
    You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
    Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday
    You can remember her and only that she is gone
    Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on
    You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
    Or you can do what she would want: smile, open your eyes love and go on. -Anonymous

    For Ashley Elizabeth & Lennon James Picco:

    “The child must know that he is a miracle, that since the beginning of the world there hasn’t been, and until the end of the world there will not be, another child like him.” -Pablo Casals

    “It is not length of life, but depth of life.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson

  99. I do not know any of you involved in this, know only that in Eugene, OR, thoughts go out to you, during what can only be said is an undescribeably sad time…yet to somehow show strength, ie to respect that there is hope gives me strength to be able to use this story for others.

    I do hope each day it gets easier, and as others have said, my God (or for others, whatever force you believe in), bless you, and those around you, during this difficult time.

  102. I am so sorry to hear of your loss..I just watched your video of you singing to your baby..I just had tears streaming down my face and still do..I cant not come close to imagining what you are going through. I can only imagine how id feel if my husband or son passed away.. I am just heartbroken for your family..I know I dont know you but i know its hard to bury a loved one and no parent at all should ever have to bury their child. I m praying for you and your family…I pray that Gods gives you strength to get through this..Your precious little one and wife are together in heaven and smiling down and looking over you now, remember that.

  103. Dear Chris and family,

    Thank you so much for sharing this wonderfully loving glimpse of a life that shone so bright. I would have loved to have known Ashley and seeing this beautiful ray of light in the world. I am so grateful that the two of you were brought together to share the time that you had. May the Most High look upon you all and heal the hearts that mourn…over time. All my love in this most tragic time, with prayers. BDE

    Jodi

  104. I didn’t know this woman. I do not know her husband. I write this out of pure joy for the experience of being part of humanity. Chris is the kind of man I should strive to be, and I’d say we all should be so lucky to attain his strength and dignity. Clearly his wife and child were of a kind, and their gifts will continue to be felt for years to come. As long as people like this exist, everything is going to be alright in the end.

    Here comes the sun. It’s alright.

    I got all of that out of a Buzzfeed article.

  105. Nothing can make this pain go away…but knowing that others are sharing might help you through it.
    Thoughts are with you.

  106. I saw your story on Facebook and I am so moved by your depth of courage and the grace that has been poured out on you. You will be in my prayers in these coming days and weeks and months.

  107. Dear Chris,

    I’m heartbroken to learn about this. I’m so very sorry for your loss, and I will pray for you during this time of mourning. I pray the Lord wraps Lennon and Ashley in his loving embrace for all of eternity. I pray that you reunite with them one day, when the kingdom of heaven brings our souls to our heavenly Father. I, like many others, am openly crying..your song for Lennon was so moving. Don’t lose the faith, even in your darkest hours, The Lord is there to carry you onwards. Plant City Seventh-Day Adventist Church is praying for you and your loved ones. You are not alone. <3

  108. Chris,
    I was so moved by reading this tragedy. May our Lord comfort you during this time of deep sorrow. I will continually keep you in my prayers. May God bless you.

  109. Nothing I can say can make you feel better but I just wanted you to know that I am keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. I cried for you so much when I read your story and I’m so sorry this happened.

  111. For Ashley and Lennon,

    I Have Gone First

    I have gone first and you remain,
    To walk the road alone.
    Please live in memory’s garden my dears,
    With happy days we’ve known.
    In spring you’ll wait for roses red,
    When fades the lilac blue,
    In early fall, when brown leaves call
    I’ll catch a glimpse of you.

    I have gone first and you remain,
    For battles to be fought,
    Each thing we’ve touched along the way,
    Will be a special spot.
    I’ll hear your voice,
    I’ll see your smile,
    Though blindly you may roam,
    Happy memories of our happy times,
    We have in our heavenly home.

    I have gone first and you remain,
    To finish with the scroll,
    No length’ning shadows shall creep in
    To make your life seem droll,
    We’ve known so much happiness,
    We’ve had our cup of joy,
    And memory is one gift of God
    That death cannot destroy.

    I have gone first and you remain,
    One thing I’d have you to do;
    Walk slowly down that long, lone path,
    For I know you’ll be with me soon.
    I’ll want to know each step you take
    So you will walk without pain,
    For some day down that lonely road
    We WILL see each other again.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    Little Angels

    When God calls special children
    To dwell with Him above,
    We mortals sometime question
    The wisdom of His love.

    For no heartache compares with
    The death of a special child,
    Who does so much to make our
    World seem wonderful and mild.

    Perhaps God tires of calling
    The aged to His fold,
    So He picks a special rosebud,
    Before it can grow old.

    God knows how much we need them,
    And so He takes a few,
    To make heaven that much more
    Beautiful to view.

    Believing this is difficult,
    Still somehow we must try,
    The saddest word mankind knows,
    Will always be. . . . . . . . “goodbye”

    So when a special child departs,
    We who are left behind,
    Must realize God loves all His children,
    As angels are difficult to find.

    Love and Respect,
    Rose Serna

  112. Ashley and Lennon are soaring through the Worlds of God, together forever and their spirits and legions of angels surround you as you grieve and heal. My heart breaks for you. I will remember all of you in my prayers. I came across this passage that has offered me some comfort. I am so sorry for your losses and hope you will be gentle with yourself. “It s as if a kind gardener transferreth a fresh and tender shrub from a confined place to a wide open area. This transfer is not the cause of the withering of that shrub, nay, on the contrary, it maketh it to grow and thrive, acquire freshness and delicacy, become green and bear fruit.” I can only imagine how your song was Lennon’s bridge, and wings to his New Garden. Peace be with you and your family.

  113. May our Lord comfort you and bring you peace. I pray your memories will one day bring joy. God bless you.

  114. I’m am absolutely heartbroken for you all, even having never known you. Ashley and little Lennon were called home far too early – but they must simply have been too beautiful for Earth. I hope you find comfort in knowing that they are together now, mother and son, as they should have been here. You have my love, may the angels bless and keep you X

  115. The life we’re given, can never be measured in time~ Even though, this is, we are taught. Some how, there are many unanswered questions~certainty,our spirit must know. So,why are some here, but just a brief while? We make an impact on those who we have been privileged to meet along our life’s journey~
    In Love which is taught in LIFE-for some-may never feel or understand what Love is-completely. So, where ever we go..in Life’s experiences- through growth and development, many may never feel but a mere touch- and accept the portion, that is given. We know intuitively we can’t be complete without -Love~ If we are blessed we find someone who completes us through Love, we find- ourselves a worth, not measured in material things. So, how do we go on-without the ones with which taught me a Love I have always sought after…I must learn to let go and continue the rest of my life with uncertainty? In my heavy Heart, sorrow and loneliness, will I ever heal? But, it is to the Greatest LOVE-with which I recognize- for when my turn comes forth, someday-to welcome my completeness in a Loving GOD~ With HIS guidance- help me find that hope to learn HIS LOVE. Though Grace- is not a measured worth- I place my burdens at HIS feet-whose steps that bring me Home. I Cherish, more than anything to feel that genuine LOVE~ we sought-for in our Lives~With those we’ll see again- who wait, in hope to receive- true LOVE awaits- as they believe- the promise given forth~HE will fulfill- as they await until their journey Home~~~~~~ Dear Chris, I send my Condolences to you and your family at this most difficult time ~I send my Prayers through this grieving time with the loss of your wife Ashley and baby boy, Lennon James…I Pray for you to feel HIS warm embrace and comfort you and give you a sanctuary of Shalom~ God’s LOVE Abounds much~

  116. You will see them again soon. Jeshua is coming back for us. My prayers are with you and all your family. Shalom

  117. Such a heartbreaking story… no words can possibly bring you the comfort and strength you need at this time…. our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family! ❤❤❤❤❤

  118. May our Lord Jesus Christ comfort you during this time of sadness. Your wife and son will always live in your memories, hold dear to them. God loves you. Be blessed!

  119. Your in my thoughts and prayers. February 4th 1993 I gave birth to my first child. He was to early too, 24 weeks. He survived for 16 days. I cry reading your current situation as for I have experienced it too. The have a title for a husband who loses a wife (widower). The have a title for for a child who loses parents ( orphan). However, there is no tittle for a parent who loses a child….it is because there is no title that can explain the devastation…because it just shouldn’t happen. My thoughts and prayers are with you always….be strong..Love always…they will alway be with you….

  120. Wow, with unspeakable double pain felt gut wrenching tears, may God hold All of you close to him, I know this pain well, my daughter in law passed away at Loma Linda in march 3 days after an emergency c-section, our granddaughter was premature, but both of your loves has gone to Heaven, your song is beautiful, there’s a website we used named gofundme.com ,people were very generous and they still are, God Bless and Keep you, wow,

  121. Your precious baby heard every perfect note. May the sharing of this heartfelt video bring you some peace in your time of immeasurable sorrow. God Bless you and your beautiful family. The heavens received two new angels. Thank you for sharing.

  122. Having read the book Ninety Minutes in Heaven and having heard the author speak, and having read the book Heaven is for Real, I have full confidence that you will see your wife again and that you – and I – will see our children again.

  123. May God wrap His loving arms around you at this heartbreaking time. To lose them both has to be the hardest thing you all will ever have to go through on this earth. Right now, Ashley is holding her precious little boy in her loving arms & some day, you will see them again.

  124. May you find some sense of comfort during these trying times in the thought that they are both in the arms of their Heavenly Father. May He bless you throughout your life with all the wonderfulness He can bestow. You are in our family’s prayers. Love , the Lorraine family

  125. It is incredibly moving to feel the love in the words of this memorial, in Chris’ voice, and in my heart right now for a family i have never even met. Chris, you are loved by many around the world as we all share in your grief over this tragic loss of not just one but two beautiful souls. There is still a purpose for your life here with us and I can not wait to see what great things will come from the memory of such a powerful love.

  126. May the Holy Spirit of Jesus Christ pour down on you and your loved ones, the peace that surpasses all understanding. May you find some joy and comfort in His presence, knowing that you will be reunited someday. God bless you so much… <3 my heart aches for you, I'm so so so very very very sorry for your loss, and pain in this loss. I am so glad you had such wonderful memories though. They touched my heart to read of them, and you are in my prayers, indefinitely.

  127. I am so terribly sorry for your loss, but equally grateful that you have had the chance to know such love in your lives as well. To the entire family, my sincerest condolences. May you continue to find love and peace in all your days.

  128. So sorry for your tragic losses. I can’t even imagine what your going through. I too had see my wife taken away for emergency C-section to give birth to our daughter. This is what was going through my mind day my baby was born. We spend 4 months this year in the NICU. So so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers your way.

  129. Just want to send my condolences to tge family. I know the pain of losing a child. Losing your spouse and child is another thing. Especially when she was such a wonderful person. The words that were said about her were beautiful. I hope the father finds peace. I am praying for him and the family. I am so sorry for their loss.

  130. So much love raps around you and your family thru this terrible tragedy. GOD with you dear Chris.
    My human soul is looking for a sweet spot where it can hang for a while.
    ~unknown ~
    GOD love be with you always

    Patty

  131. I cannot imagine the pain you are feeling. Just know that god has a great plan for you while your wife and son look down on you. Lennon will now be in the arms of his mother for all eternity. Bless your heart and stay stong!

  132. Dear Chris, Elizabeth & Jon,
    There are no words for something like this, but know that more and more people are learning what a wonderful woman Ashley was and how loved Lennon was. We all wish you healing and love.

  134. Chris and family~
    I, too, am taken back by this story. John Lennon’s song was never sung so sweetly. This is such a thought filled, loving tribute. May God wrap his arms around you and comfort you. I will light a candle as I pray in Ashley and Lennon’s memory, and send prayers for strength, love, and God’s understanding to you Chris ~ and to all who grieve their loss.

  136. So saddened by your story. And beautifully written intro above. My wife had our son premature aug 18th 2007 a day before you and Ashley married. I though we would lose him as he was too weak to fight, and she was too weak to fight as well, the doctors told me they both had 25% chance at making it, I prayed and prayed everyday they were there. God has his own ways and reasons for everything. In your case he needed Great angels above to help in heaven. Your story makes me tear up, because it could have been me in your same situation. God bless you Chris Picco and your lost loved ones. I say this as I wipe a tear from my eye. This is meant to happen because your story has been wide spread and it’s meant to touch someone’s heart somewhere. Maybe change a few souls and there paths in life. The song you put on you tube is amazing too, I hope you get a record deal and sing the music that can change lives forever, god has a plan for you Chris and the doors are opening for you as we speak. I salute you sir god bless you!!!

  137. So heart breakingly beautiful. My thoughts and prayers for all of you. You and your family have touched so many lives whom you do not even know. May angels keep them wrapped in their warm embrace.

  138. I do not know you but watched the post of you singing to Lennon. It was beautiful and I continued on to learn more about you and your wife. I’m so sorry for your losses. Sending prayers of love and comfort.

  139. James, so incredibly sorry to both hear your story and the heartbreaking loss of Ashley and Lennon. You are in my thoughts and prayers here, across the Pond.

  140. Our families have never met and we live on opposite ends of the country. However, your story has deeply touched me. To say I’m sorry for your loss is such an understatement. Your faith is such an inspiration. My family and I will keep you in our prayers. Peace be with you …

  141. I am so sorry for the loss of your best friend and your baby.

    Last year, I almost died and I lost my sweet dream of a son at nearly 34 weeks pregnancy. It has been a really rough recovery for me, but I am miraculously alive. My husband was almost in the same situation as you. We grieve our son every day. You have two lives to grieve for. If you ever need someone to speak with, we are here. You are so brave to share your story.

  142. deepest condolences to your family. It’s so nice to hear you were surrounded by loved ones through this devastation.
    It’s funny you met your bride while volunteering at Ground Zero. I was there for the same reason most of that February. I may have met you both then! I seem to remember a love connection amongst us volunteers.
    Please continue to lean on loved ones and be good to yourself. -Dani Valley-Hawkes

  143. Chris, don’t lose hope. It will take time and it will be hard, but you can make it through this. Lean on Jesus in this time of need and know that Ashley and Lennon are in a safe place where there is no sadness and there is no pain. Stay strong. Sending prayers from Cali. God bless.

  144. I am reading this on FB with tears. I am so very sorry or your lose of your wife and child. My heart goes out to you.

  145. Chris,
    Again, we don’t understand why God let this happen. But He promised, that if we stay faithful, we will see them again in the bright morning. May God comfort and strengthen you.

  146. I have no words that could begin to express my sorrow for Chris and family. I know time is the only thing that will make it bearable and help with starting to heal the broken hearts and faith in what you believe in. I wish you all the best and am deeply sad and have immense sorrow for all who knew and love Ashley. Please take care and rest as best you can, get whatever help you need. My deepest sympathy.

  147. Words cannot describe the amount of joy and sorrow I am feeling now. It seems that the Lord bestows upon his most precious creations the burden of what seems to be tragedy, but could be much more. Ashley, and baby Lennon are in Heaven now, together looking down upon their Father and dear Husband filling his spirit with strength, and resolve. Although, I did not know any of these Angels, I do know, that we are all in debt to their service to our country, and all people that their message of service, and love brings. I am sorry for your loss, and grateful to the legacy your family has procured in the souls of those who will live on in the kingdom of the Lord.

    Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

  149. Hello Chris, I just watched your video that’s floating around the internet where your singing to your son and I thought I’d just leave you with an encouraging message. I’m so sorry to hear about your wife and son passing away Chris. I didn’t personally know them. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I don’t know if you believe in what the bible says but I wan’t to give you all an encouraging scripture that may help you in this rough time your facing. It’s at Revelation 21:4 and it say’s “And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” Just a scripture to help you. I hope it helps and again I am sorry to hear about your loss.

  150. I don’t know what it means but it means a lot to read about you guys. Your son and wife are legends, will continue to capture attention from huge-hearted people and will be on my mind forever. Even if I try, I will never forget them because my own young son’s birthday is November 8…and his name is Lennon. Your hurt is indescribable but know on his day that everything your wife and put into him was all he needed. He knew your love. Many days, none of this will help — you’ll want one thing — to hold them. Try to feel an embrace. We are holding you up.

  152. This is so Tragic… My Heart goes out to Ashley’s Family as well as Chris. We are given but one day at a time. So make that day the best day possible. I am speechless and saddened by this tragedy. The video on you tube made me cry. Chris know that Lennon and Ashley are both with you always. Keep the faith of a mustard seed and know that everything happens for a reason I am so sorry for your loss it breaks my heart truly sorry nobody is promised tomorrow.. all we have is one day

  153. Chris,
    Love and light being sent to you and your family from Hampton, NH.
    Ashley and Lennon are in Heaven together dancing with the angels. My prayers are with you.

  154. Chris – trust they are with you always. They love you for everything you are and for what you will be. Love and light!

  155. So sorry for your loss. Nothing can ever bring Ashley and Lennon back, and nothing any of us say can take away the longing and sadness in your hearts.

    It’s not fair.

    But I want you to know that though I never met Ashley or Lennon, I will forever be thankful to them for reminding me how precious life is…something I’ve forgotten these last couple of years.

    I will never take life for granted again.

  156. Chris i just seen your story i am praying for your family and i pray for you to have peace that passes all understanding i know it is hard to lose a child but your wife too i am so sorry i only know half your pain i have lost 4 little babies but just remember they will be with you always and forever they are your guardian angel now i know you don’t know me and i don’t know you but if you ever need to talk i am only an email away may God give you peace and comfort in this time of need

  157. First let me thank you and your wife for your service in New York. The tribute to your family touched my soul. My angel Benjamin Owen went to his heavenly home In 1999…he would be 30…..he was my gift fro! God. I will leave with a scripture that comforts me…For we know that all things work together for the good of those who love the Lord and are called according to his purpose

  158. I am heartbroken for you and your family, Chris. I know none of you and, yet, I mourn along with you all. May you be comforted by your memories of Ashley and Lennon and supported by those around you. I can tell you from first hand experience that the sudden loss of a spouse is beyond difficult and, at times, soul-crushing, but time does heal all wounds. May you continue to have the strength to carry on.

  160. My prayers and heartfelt wish for peace in this loss are with you Chris, your family and friends. May your memories of Ashley and Lennon sustain you as you heal. May you feel their presence in your life. God’s blessings on you. Keeping you in my prayers.

  161. Chris listening to you sing to your son was so touching and beautiful. God bless you may you find peace that you will be reunited with your wife and child.

  162. So sorry to hear about the death of your beautiful wife and child. I’m sure the only thing keeps you together is that they are both in heaven. They have each other. I hope you have the love and support you need until you meet them again xxxx

  163. From another stranger: Deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved wife, Ashley and little son, Lennon.
    May God comfort you…

    Portland, OR

  166. Chris, my heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry for the loss of your lovely wife and beautiful son. May you be comforted through your music, friends, and the memories of Ashley and Lennon.

  167. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you and your two angels up above.

  168. Praying for you & your family/friends. My heart aches for your loss: beautiful wife & baby. You’re a dear soul & tears flowed hearing you sing. God has a perfect plan even in the midst of tragedy….a rainbow will appear to remind you you’re loved & your angels are watching over you ❤ Phil 4:13

  169. I do not know you. But sitting here as a new father myself, I cannot imagine the heartache that you are experiencing. I’m praying for you and your family.

  170. I don’t know your family..in fact I have never heard of you….but after reading your story I will never forget you or your beautiful little family….your Ashley must have truly been all that you say….because it is evident in the way you speak of her she I can tell was a great inspiration to you….and your baby is loved by you as well…and even though it was only a few days…he knew you and felt love….as a Christian I pray you will live together in Heaven…in time…and you all will be loved by God ….as he loves you now and is by your side….Bless you….forever.

  171. I am terribly sorry for the loss of your wife and sweet child. I lost twin girls at birth, they also were taken to young! I know your pain. When God calls little children to dwell with him above, he mortals sometime question the wisdom of his love! For no heart ache compares with the death of one small child who does so much to make our world seem wonderful and mild. Perhaps God tires of calling the aged to his fold, So he picks a rose bud before he can grow old! God knows how much we need them, and so he takes but few to make the land of heaven more beautiful to view. Believing this is difficult still somehow we must try, this saddest word mankind knows will always be “goodbye.” So when a little child departs, we who are left behind must realize God loves children, “Angels are hard to find!” Peace be with you and God give you strength! Amen

  172. As a dad and husband, I can’t imagine your pain and loss but my heart goes out to you and your loved ones. For what it’s worth, which probably isn’t much, I’m going to go give my sleeping daughters a kiss right now. I’m so sorry.

  173. I have typed sentence after sentence here only to delete them and start over again. There are no words to express how deeply sorry I am for the tremendous loss you have suffered, nor are there words that can lessen your pain at this time. Even though we have never met, please know that you are being held close in thought and prayer. May your treasured memories of Ashley always bring you comfort, may your dear ones give you support to help you rebuild strength, and may your love for these 2 precious souls live in your heart always.

  174. I am so so sorry for your lose life is precious so sorry your love of your life and your baby is not on this earth but they are in your heart and they will always be there when life goes on. Where they have gone there not in pain and both will be waiting for you when it time for u to go they will be there . tack care

  175. I am so sorry for your tragic loss. My heart is breaking for you. I pray that God brings you comfort and peace in this time.

  176. Dearest Chris;
    Your anguish is unfathomable, but our Lord knows and is by your side with every step and catches every teardrop.
    May you find peace in knowing that your family will be made whole again in Heaven, and that Ashley and Lennon are with you in spirit.
    God bless and keep you in your sorrow and help you heal, may memories of their smiles and tender touches warm your heart, and I pray that you feel the love and strength of the countless thousands of us who never had the honor to meet your precious little family, yet are grieving and crying with you in these sorrowful days and nights. We stand in the gap with you, Chris.
    Your brothers and sisters in Christ from across the globe…
    Sending you peace, light and love from St. Paul, MN.

  177. So sad for the loss of two members of your family…life can be very tough and heartbreaking at times.They will always be in your heart,loved and never forgotten..now..a line from a poem I love…..I am only in the next room,all is well…God bless….from Irene in Australia

  178. Mr. Chris Picco, I can not imagine what you are going through now but I must say to you, Thank You Sir for showing the world how to love! God Bless your wife and your little son! May you find peace and joy in remembering them always, and may the Holy Spirit of God bring you comfort in the days ahead!

  179. Mr. Picco I know the pain must be great. I don’t know you or your family and I can feel its depth. My deepest sincerest sympathies to you for the loss of such a remarkable woman and precious baby. No one knows why such terrible things happen but I know that God has a plan. I truly believe God had his hand in giving you just a few precious days with your son. That was no coincidence. It is said that life is not measured by how many breaths we take but by how many moments take our breath away. I will keep you, Ashley and beautiful sweet Lennon in my prayers always. God bless you.

  180. I have been to Loma Linda church a few times and although I have never met you my heart is broken for you. As an expecting Dad of my first son, I can not imagine the heartache and loss you have experienced. But I do have faith that there is no one that will understand you more than God will. In my darkest moments the story of Job made a big impact on my life. God loved Job and Job loved God, and even with all his faith he still cursed his own birth as he dealt with his struggle. But in the end he never cursed God and he held onto his faith.
    This story gave me strength because I will never be as strong as Job or you, but as you deal with your struggle and you wrestle with God, hold onto that faith and it will bring you back. Back to God and back to your family when God returns.
    I will pray for you and your family, so that you can feel his peace again soon. Love your brother in Christ.

  181. God bless this entire family and surround them in your love where it is so desperately needed. Praying for the strength to carry on until they are reunited in your heavenly glory. May their beautiful lives live in the hearts of us all to be reminded of how precious each moment is. In Jesus name Amen.

  182. You don’t know me and I don’t know you personally either. But I heard of your loss and was led here. I can’t even begin to comprehend what your family has gone through. I can only say that Ashley sounds like an amazing soul and has made and has touched the lives of others in such a loving way. She and Lennon have touched my heart today too. You are all beautiful and my heart goes out to everyone that has been affected. I promise to love and cherish harder. Thank you for sharing such a personal and beautiful part of you lives. May you find strength and peace as Angels watch over you and your family ♥

  183. My dear brother in Christ…words usually come easy to me, even in the most dire of situations, but this…this goes far beyond what any words can convey. I have just read every single entry in this Memorial to your wife Ashley, and your son Lennon James. I cannot say anything that hasn’t already been said. During trials such as this one, words have not yet been created that could speak my heart’s feelings for you and your family. Like so many others, I did not know you personally, nor did I know Ashley or Lennon. However, after reading your love story, I feel as though I have known all three of you. I felt your deep love for your wife and son; I heard your soul poured out through your gift of music; and I knew and I shared in your abiding faith. I will never forget you or your heartbreaking story. God has something amazing in store for you — I promise! Please hold tight to your faith, cry out to Jesus when you feel you can’t go on and He WILL sustain you. The Bible says, “Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of His saints”. The only way you will be able to get through this is with the loving Hand of God gripping yours. I have known deep loss, but not like yours so I can only imagine the depth of your pain. I wish I could take it from you. I wish I could bring them back to you. I cannot Chris, but I CAN promise that you will be reunited one day — and I will be able to meet all three of you and I will know you right away because we will all be children of the same family–God’s forever family, and I am trusting that He will speak to you each morning about the reunion to come, until that glorious day He returns! I have a plaque on my home office wall that reads: “I never said it would be easy…I only said it would be worth it”…GOD < < Holding you close in thought and prayer…always. Someday, if you should have a daughter, I think it would be such a tribute to Ashley and Lennon if you were to name her ASHLEN — your wife and son together — half of each — shining forever in one little girl.

  184. Chris,
    As a new dad, who is up laye singing Beatles’ songs trying to calm my newborn daughter, I can only imagine the loss you must be feeling. My heart breaks for you.

    More people than you will ever know are praying for you and your family in this difficult time.

    When peace like a river attendeth my way, when sorrow like sea billows roll, whatever my lot, though have taught me to say, it is well, it is well with my soul.

  185. p.s. When you are ready, and regardless of your religious beliefs (this information crosses all boundaries), you will certainly find comfort in the book, “Proof of Heaven” by Dr. Eben Alexander, a neurosurgeon who has been to the other side and shares that experience in this wonderful book. ~Love & Light

  186. Chris: none of us can fully comprehend what a great loss you are going through. I didn’t know your
    family, just am familiar with the hospital mentioned. But I do want you to know you are in my prayers for the loss of your beautiful wife, Ashley and son Lennon. I felt it was necessary to let you know that even though we are strangers, there are tons of us that DO care about your loss and am praying for you, your and Ashley’s families also.

  189. Sending lots of prayers and hugs to you and your family. Thank you for sharing their beautiful story of their short life here on earth.

  190. i saw ur story on local news site. being sda and knowing of loma linda i immediately went to the church site, looking for this memorial. my boyfriend lost his 20 year old son in a shooting last june. perhaps u 2 can talk if he can look past our denomination. he is still very angry. i will show him ur story. he is a john lennon and beatles fan as well. perhaps u can give my boyfriend some hope. my heart breaks for u, as i want children some day, as i tried and tried with my ex husband to conceive a child and did not succeed. i will keep u in my prayers and say something at my church in hanover, pa as well.
    god bless,
    keep the faith
    and hope,
    louise

  191. Chris, so sorry for your loss… you may not know me and my folks, but our prayers will be for you and your entire family… your “Blackbird” video really touched me…

    Franz
    Iloilo City, Philippines

  192. Chris, believe it or not, this has been experienced before.
    Your two are alive and well and wait for you, your Wife
    giddy in the anticipation that comes from knowing.
    Knowing the truth of love and its meaning to God.
    He lives through us, as our Creator needs us to experience
    life, ironically something he can’t do on his own.
    And so we exist, in a playground grander than fantasy.
    Live onward and dream big, for it will be surpassed.
    And thank you for providing the rest of us with the
    instruction on how it is done, to mourn with courage,
    and with integrity. We are the richer for it.

  193. Dear Ones~
    No words can express the sympathy I have for your family. Chris, I cannot imagine the pain of losing a beloved spouse nor a much anticipated and loved child.

    My family has endured the grief of child-loss at birth when my brother’s son died and was born still, five years ago today. I watched my brother and sister-in-law’s grief with a feeling of sinking helplessness. I watched their (our) mothers grieve for their children and shared grandson. And many aunties and uncles trying to come to grips with how this could happen. So I can imagine a bit of what you are going through.

    However, I cannot even begin to fathom your double loss. I am grateful for all the support surrounding you (and hopefully your extended family) now.

    I hope & pray that in the coming days & months, as the quietness sets in, as you truly set out along this journey called grief, that you will both embrace the process (as odd as that sounds) and (just as importantly) find true friends who will walk alongside you during the journey….friends you can call in the middle of the night; friends who will call you or stop by and check on you; friends who will continue to bring you meals long past the times when when the church’s sign-up sheets have ran dry; friends who will swing by & mow your lawn or clean your house when you are too engaged in the process of grieving & healing to even notice there was a meadow outside your house or a moldy toilet within it; friends who totally get that grieving isn’t linear but cyclical and that going out to eat or to the beach one week will be perfectly normal and needed one week while not the next (perhaps for years); friends who will cry with you and friends who will laugh with you; friends that “get” that it sucks that there is a word for losing your spouse (widowed/widower) but NOT for losing your child; friends who won’t tell you (no matter what your faith) that your wife and child are in a “better” place or that God needed them “more” than YOU when all you want to do is take them in your empty arms and hold them; and friends who know that just because you may rail at God now and again (or quite often) doesn’t mean you’ve lost your faith but rather that it takes a lot of faith to do so; friends who let you talk; friends who sit with you in silence; friends that understand that what has happened is going to change you–there’s going to be a new you–and that okay and accepted; friends who love you [period].

    And not just you, but other family members too, as I know there are others grieving too.

    And remember, some of these friends will be known to you, others will be strangers who perhaps are part these strange”clubs” that no one wants to belong to but who are very loyal to those who become members [the child-loss and widowed clubs–didn’t know those rotten things existed, did you ;-)]

    I pray that the Lord’s peace and grace surround you.
    In tenderness,
    M

  194. praying for peace and comfort to surround you and your family at this sad time. I have no idea what you’re going thru, I am so glad you had the blessing of spending some time with your sweet son. You will always have that , and he was perfect. Take care of you- xo

  195. I am so very sorry…I don’t know you both…But I just started weeping so deeply for you…your wife and son. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON…AND YOU WILL HAVE YOUR ANSWER WHEN YOU GO HOME TO HEAVEN ALSO…..UNTIL THEN MAY GOD BLESS YOU.

  196. My heart is heavy hearing and reading about this, so very sad. For those who have lost at a young age, for me it was my six year old son to cancer, may you find peace and comfort. It is these moments that confuse our souls, we are left without answers and, often, awful and deep hurt. Time allows us the gift of management, we learn to place these feelings aside and re-embrace life. They are forever there, ready to re-emerge at a whim and grip our hearts again with the bittersweet. The one lesson I have learned and hope to pass to you is that life is good and worth the journey forward. Live and be a blessing to those around you.

  197. Hello. I am so sorry for your loss. Chris I would like to share with you a The name to a song that has helped me through so many tough spots. I hope through the words you too will find the comfort it brought to me. May your beautiful wife and baby rest in peace surrounded by the Heavenly Angels.

    “Hold Me Jesus” by : Rich Mullins…May the melody and words give you some comfort.

  198. Dear Chris,
    My wife and I wanted to express our condolences. We live in Hong Kong. When I was born in 1971, I was a premature baby. The doctors said to my dad, do you want the child to live or the wife. My dad said the wife. But when I was born he and said he really understood what love was. And ran around the hospital handing our cigars to all and sundry.
    Love,
    Raj & Sharon Seth.

  199. Chris, I’ve never seen anyone let go with such grace. Our children teach us the most amazing things don’t they?

  203. I am just wondering how many songs this dad could sing to Lennon and how much the baby could be enjoyed. How I’ve cried listening to that song on that video. Chris Picco is also one of my heroes and may I learn to love more than I love my three daughters and my granddaughter Bianca, and my wife too. God bless this family all eternity long. (Excuse my bad English, I am brazilian).

  205. Death is not the extinguishing of the light, but simply the turning off of the lamp because morning has come.
    Morning has broken for Ashley and Lennon, Chris. May God bless you all.

  206. Such great strength, from someone who has lost so much…food for thought!
    This is so sad..it reminds us that we’re here for a purpose..and some has fulfilled that purpose..thats why god took his Angels back..

    So unfair, that God testes His strongest Soldier, in the most painful and challenging way! May This father and Husband continue to be blessed with such strength and grace!! —

  207. i have no words how sad I am feeling. i can’t even imagine how tiny Lennon’s dad is coping with this loss. i’m sooooo sooooo sorry.

  209. I can’t wrap my head around this tragedy..my heart literally hurts from reading this story. Words cannot express how sad this makes me for Chris, Ashley, Baby Lennon and their families. My deepest sympathies and thoughts are with you and your family in this time. What a brave person you are to be able to share such a tragic life event with millions of people. I never met you, your wife or precious son, but from reading this and what others have posted I can see that all of you are wonderful people, stay strong.

  211. Dearest Chris,
    As they say, this too shall pass. All my love for you and your family members. I’m sure your wife and child would always want to see you happy. And they could be happy if you were happy. You are the love Chris. And love is all you need bud.
    You have an amazing life ahead. Dont just let go of the past or cling to it forever, but let it always inspire you to be happy.
    Have an epic life Chris ! Have a life full of love !

  212. Listening your voice and reading your words sorrowful. Hoping that your world will start moving again and you put your arms around these two bright stars one day. My deepest condolences.

  213. God Bless you and your family during this time. May God hold Ashley and Lennon James in His loving arms.

  214. The story about your wife and your little son, especially your song full of loving care next to his bed, touched me very deeply! I#ll light a candle for you and give within all my best wishes…
    Love and peace for the departed and for you!

  215. May Ashley and Lennon be surrounded by angels and by love as infinite as your love for them Chris. I to lost my son when he was 3 months old. I say this not to diminish your loss but to join with you in your sorrow. I thank the Universe for the small amount of precious time I had with Zacharey Bryant Pleshaw and for the time you were blessed with Ashley and Lennon. I was moved by your strength to sing to you son in such a time of sorrow. What a loving memory he will have of you during his short time experiencing life. You made his moments here beautiful.

  216. My deepest condolences to you and your family. As a young father myself having gone through time in the NICU with our first child, I can only imagine how deeply involved your situation must be. May God give you and your family continued strength, support, and love…You and your family will be in our prayers…Quoc

  217. May Ashley and Lennon be surrounded by angels and by love as infinite as your love for them Chris. I to lost my son when he was 3 months old. I say this not to diminish your loss but to join with you in your sorrow. I thank the Universe for the small amount of precious time I had with Zacharey Bryant Pleshaw and for the time you were blessed with Ashley and Lennon. I was moved by your strength to sing to you son in such a time of sorrow. What a loving memory he will have of you during his short time experiencing life. You made his moments here beautiful.

  218. I don’t know any of the family, I am only one of the many who watched the video of Chris singing to Lennon that was posted to YouTube. My heart aches for you and I am thinking of you all and sending strength, courage and love your way in the hope that it lifts and comforts you for as long as you need.

    All the best,

    Becky Forster, Leeds, United Kingdom

  219. Dear Chris and family, it’s with such a heavy heart that I leave you this message. I saw your story online and wantrr to express my genuine care, concern, and hope for you.

    During this unprecedented and unthinkable time, I hope that you have the time to find the peace you need to live your life, keeping memories of Ashley and the baby alive while carrying on.

    My heart goes out to you – Jodi

  220. In Australia, November 11 is our remembrance day. I wore a poppy for our fallen troops this year, as I do every year. Next year I will wear two; one for our troops and one for Ashley and Lennon.
    As a nurse I know that through grief and unimaginable loss there is profound spiritual growth. That will be yours a little later Chris. I know you will use it well. I send you my love from the other side of the world.

  221. Dear Chris,I am so so sorry of your loss my heart bleeds for you I couldn’t imagine what your going through,and no words can describe your loss! But all I want to say is I’m thinking of you and your family at this very sad time xxx

  222. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. May your beloved wife and your beloved son rest in peace. I’m deeply sorry.

  223. I am so sorry for your loss. When I saw this precious baby and read this story, my heart goes out to the family. Mommy and baby are together watching over you.. Watching the video touched me. I am praying you find peace.

    Dee
    Boca Raton, FL

  224. I am very sorry for your loss. I lost my son last year and I myself was in danger. I wish there was a donation I could make. My thoughts and best wishes will be with your family always. I wish i would have sang to my son. Best regards in your time of need.

  225. May they rest in peace and the eternal light shine upon them. They are angels in heaven xxx
    From Mary Assad
    Sydney Australia

  227. Hi Chris and family,

    I’m just a stranger on the Internet, but I wanted to offer my deepest condolences to you.

    I, too, lost my son this past Sunday. He was born via emergency c-section, just like yours was. He fought valiantly for his life for 12 hours in the NICU until he died peacefully in my arms. So I understand to some degree the pain you are going through.

    I know it is difficult to accept or comprehend why this happened to you, and it is easy to blame yourself — believe me, I do myself this every moment since my son’s passing. But take solace in the love and support that you have around you at this moment, from your own family and friends and strangers alike. Focus not on what you have lost but what you already have or have gained from this. It seems unimaginable now, but you will live on with your beautiful wife and son watching over you at all times until it is time to meet them again in Heaven.

    Be strong. If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to write.

    Yours,
    Cindy L. of Dallas, TX

  228. Thank you for sharing this moving story and for sharing your faith in the Resurrection and the hope Christ brings in the uncertainties and pain of life. Our hearts are moved with yours and prayers for strength to walk on every day. Peace of the Lord be with you +

  229. stay strong ,Lennon was a lucky boy to have a father ,
    I’ve you even if it was for a short while. Memories stay forever.The love you showed for this little boy will live y
    With you forever. Xx

  230. Hi Chris, I am praying for you, your beautiful wife, your little Lennon and all your family.
    For sure Ashley is watching you with so much proud of the great daddy you already are.
    All my love,
    Renata. (Brazil)

  232. My prayers are with you and your family as you go through a loss so deep that words cannot express. God bless you.

  234. Most gracious god, please send your angels to be not only with this man but his family and friends as well. Lord be their guide comforter, mind regulator, and their heart fixer and healer. Now ans always. There are no words that are able to mend your broken heart. But do hpold on to your very precious memories. God is a good,nb wise a d just god that never m a kes a mistake. Even in times like this we still have to trust hime give him all honor, praise and glory. Be blessed and continue to lean in god.

  235. Chris….such a incredibly sad story. But now you have 2 more angels watching over you. Lennon is safe in his Mom’s arms and they are watching and waiting for the time you are reunited. I’m sure they don’t want it anytime soon, so live your life to it’s fullest and know you are being watched by angels. Sleep well and visit them in your dreams.
    QQ

  237. From the other side of the world – Australia, I send you my heartfelt love and light. I cannot fathom the loss you are feeling this week and the tears I have shed tonight for Ashley and baby Lennon. Your Blackbird song had me in such strong tears. Sending you and your families much love and healing light from afar. May Ashley and Lennon shine their love for you all through the brightness of the stars every night for the rest of eternity. xx Ange

  238. One night I dreamed a dream.
    As I was walking along the beach with my Lord.
    Across the dark sky flashed scenes from my life.
    For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand,
    One belonging to me and one to my Lord.
    After the last scene of my life flashed before me,
    I looked back at the footprints in the sand.
    I noticed that at many times along the path of my life,
    especially at the very lowest and saddest times,
    there was only one set of footprints.
    This really troubled me, so I asked the Lord about it.
    “Lord, you said once I decided to follow you,
    You’d walk with me all the way.
    But I noticed that during the saddest and most troublesome times of my life,
    there was only one set of footprints.
    I don’t understand why, when I needed You the most, You would leave me.”
    He whispered, “My precious child, I love you and will never leave you
    Never, ever, during your trials and testings.
    When you saw only one set of footprints,
    It was then that I carried you.”

    Dear Chris, Ashley’s family & friends. I am so, so, sorry for your unthinkable loss. Please take comfort in the fact that you have the love, thoughts and prayers of people all over the world at this difficult time and for as long as you need. Love to you all x

  239. Praying for you and all your family members. May God uphold you with his righteous right hand. Isaiah 40:10.

  240. Bende bir baba olduğum için senin duygularını çok iyi anlıyorum. Keşke eşin ve çocuğunla uzun yıllar beraber olabilseydin. İnsan olmak ağır sorumluluk gerektiriyor, böyle acılara katlanmak zorunda kalıyorsun. Acını paylaşıyorum, seni hiç tanımıyorum ama kalbim seninle.

  242. My sincere condolences. Clearly, a life well lived. I pray for your strength and courage in the days that come before you!

  243. What a beautiful family. Your wife and your son knew deep and profound love. I am praying for peace and comfort for those that will join them later.

  245. I’m glad I saw this today. While I am so very sorry for your loss, your personal story is so very inspiring. Prayers to you and your beautiful family.

  246. I read about your story on CNN and felt deeply touched by it. I am so sorry for the loss of your wife and baby. I can understand how painful that is. I hope that you stay strong and live a happy life.

    May God have Mercy upon you and your family.

    Mohamed Ali, Toronto, Canada.

  247. My deepest and sincerest condolences to the grieving family. May they find peace and may both of them be happy together up above. From the bottom of my heart, i am so sorry.

  250. You will be together again in what will then seem like only the blink of an eye. May time pass quickly until the mention of your dear ones’ names will bring a smile rather than a tear. I offer prayers requesting strength for you all during this very, very difficult time.

  251. Mr. Picco, my deepest condolences to you and your family for your indescribable loss. God bless you and your family.

  253. Heaven has just brought home two very precious Angels. There are no words that can ease this kind sadness and loss for their family but with just one thought, one breath, they will fill all our hearts and live on forever watching over their family and blow kisses from Heaven. May GOD be with them ALWAYS.

  254. Dear Chris,

    I don’t know you, I didn’t know your wife Ashley, your son Lennon or your family. However you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. Seeing you play the guitar to your little son was one of the most touching things I’ve ever seen. Best wishes to you in the future and a friendly wave to your wife and son smiling down at you from heaven. Regards, Josh, London, United Kingdom.

  256. Chris,
    We have never met but I was so touched by your song to Lennon. I am so very sorry for your loss of your wife and son. What a beautiful family. Ashley chose a wonderful man for a husband and father. Heaven has two beautiful angels watching over you. I lit a candle in church today for all of you. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Stay strong! Love and prayers to you from Florida.

  257. Thank you Chris for sharing Ashley and Baby Lennon wth us, how you have blessed me with your love and strength. What wonderful Angels Ashley and Lennon are, for I know they are in heaven together. What an angel you are. God has blessed the world with you, blessed the world with Ashley and Lennon. Your baby was blessed with the tremendous amount of love he must have felt from you and your amazing musical talent. I speak from the heart, I know no other way. I am blessed to know that I will share my birthday with a wonderful angel, Ashley for we have the same birthdays. Chris, I will keep you and your families in prayer. Know that you have many unknown friends that love you. God bless you and be with you when you have difficult moments. In my heart, Liz

  258. God bless your beautiful wife, and child, i woke this morning, feeling humbled, by your loss, May God, bless you, all, and may he give you love and strength to continue, with their loving memories’, i wrap my arms around you with a big warm HUG!!!!…………………God BLess…..and thankyou for sharing your heartbreaking story,,.Life….EllY!

  259. This hit home for me. I have had two c sections. My sister had a very early preemie by c section as well. It never occurred to either of us that we wouldn’t recover fully. My neice struggled but I never really considered that she might not survive.
    Ashley’s and Lennon’s passing is a sobering reminder of just how very fragile we are. May their memories be blessed and may your Angel baby and his Angel mom watch over you always.

  260. My heart breaks for you. This tribute to your wife and son is so heartfelt and beautifully written. I pray for you and just know that God is taking care of your family until you arrive. Peace be with you

  261. My Heart is broken for the loss you have gone though… No one can say they know the pain right now that you are going though but you are not alone… As you can see you are in many caring peoples hearts.. thoughts and prayers… Stay Strong….

  262. Prayers from Richmond Va for you Chris and your family. Even though I don’t know you, from one father/husband to another I grieve with you. Even in the valley…He is with you.

  263. I did not know you or your family, but your story touched my heart! There sometimes doesn’t seem like there is a reason for someone so young and full of life to leave this life, but I am guessing that God has his reasons and that Ashley and Lennon are now with him, without pain or fear and that someday you will all be reunited! God Bless You and your family and loved ones as you try to get through this very difficult time!!! And God Bless and keep Ashley and Lennon in his loving arms!!!

  264. So sad to lose one so young, who may have been of great benefit to his fellow human beings. Here in Asia, children are regarded as very precious, so only God knows your pain and suffering and may he comfort you in your distress. From a parent’s veiwpoint, I wonder if is it worse for a child to be taken so young, as opposed to becoming an adult and wasting his life on drugs; – Only God knows the answers and the reasons! – May God be with you in your times of suffering, – Australian ‘Richard’ (Thailand)

  266. I can not imagine your pain. May God help you all with this great loss. Prayers your way.

  267. Your story moved me to tears. My heart hurts for you and your loved ones. The Lord works in mysterious ways, it is true. Your strength is inspiring and your story will continue to resonate with me for years to come as I watch my own newborn baby girl grow. From my family to yours, we send blessings and light and are truly sorry for your loss. God gained two more beautiful angels for his kingdom.

  268. It is so unfair and sad.
    Cruel, such a beautiful woman, such a good man, they deserved life, they deserved their kid alive and
    enjoy him together.
    They should be together and happy now, but she and the baby are dead and the husband, oh, my Lord,
    he must feel empty inside, angry, desperate, because life is unfair.
    They just wanted to help other and God devastated them.
    I feel pretty sad and impressed, angry and there are no words to explain what i fell, such a cruel and
    unfair situation.
    God, give them an explanation.
    Love from Ana in Uruguay.

  269. May The Lord bless thee and keep thee. May The Lord make His face shine down upon thee and be gracious unto thee. May The Lord lift up His countenance upon thee and give thee peace. Numbers 6:24-26 We are praying that you find comfort within your family and church family. The Albrechts from Rockport, Texas

  270. I AM SO SORRY.
    IT IS SUCH A SAD AND UNFAIR STORY.
    YOU SHOULD BE TOGETHER, LOVING EACH OTHER, HELPING OTHERS, WAITING YOUR BABY,
    BUT LIFE DEVASTATED YOUR DREAMS.
    THERE ARE NO WORDS, SUCH A DEEP PAIN AND EVEN I AM ANGRY WITH GOD.
    YOU LOVE HELPING OTHER PEOPLE, YOU WERE SPECIAL AND LOVING PEOPLE.
    WHY? GOD MUST HAVE AN ANSWER, BECAUSE IF NOT IT IS TOO CRUELTY AND SUFFERING.
    LOVE FROM ANA IN URUGUAY.

  271. Chris, I am greatly sorry for your loss, my heart breaks for you and your family. Both Ashley and Lennon (love that name) are both in God’s grace and love. God Bless you and your whole family! I loved how you sang Blackbird to Lennon, so touching, gave me goose bumps. I am a lover of John Lennon and I would like to leave you with this my favorite song from him, they will forever be in your heart!

    “Bless You”

    Bless you wherever you are
    Windswept child on a shooting star
    Restless Spirits depart
    Still we’re deep in each other’s hearts

    Some people say it’s over
    Now that we spread our wings
    But we know better darling
    The hollow ring is only last year’s echo

    Bless you whoever you are
    Holding her now
    Be warm and kind hearted
    And remember though love is strange
    Now and forever our love will remain.

    By: John Lennon

    Thank you for being the kind-hearted and compassionate people you are. The world needs more people like you. Hang in there!

    Christina

  272. My thoughts and prayers go out to this family…this story laid heavily on my heart…I pray you all did peace and comfort…my last sons birthday was Feb 22 of this last year but before him I had an ectopic pregnancy like a. Month and half before him…that baby had he/she survived was to be born on nov11 which is also my mom’s birthdAy..was praying for a girl I have 4 boys now…I feel the pain you are in…I just prAy your angels watch over you and comfort you and you family in this time of need
    Darla
    From Georgia

  273. Lots of prayers and blessings from my family to yours here in Washington State. I lost one of my grandchildren at 24 weeks. It was a very hard time in our lives. Every year around Jeffery”s birthday I think of him. I am glad you were able to spend a fees days with your special child but now it is time for your wife to take care of the baby. Bless you my dear friend.

  274. Even though I don’t know you personally: I feel so sorry for you! Especially for this difficult time, I wish God’s Blessing to all of you.

  275. My heart and deepest sympathy go out to you and your entire family on the loss of your dearly loved ones. God Bless

  276. I’m so sorry to hear about your losses. My wife and I lost our first and only child, Luke, a little more than a week before you lost Lennon. I know how tough it is to bear the loss of a child, but can’t imagine also having lost my wife. I pray you take comfort in the fact that Ashley and Lennon are with our Heavenly Father in a place with no more pain, fear, or struggles, and based on your faith, you WILL see them again. Until then, keep looking for the good that God will bring from this. I’ve not yet figured out how He is going to use our loss, but am confident it will happen.

    Romans 8:28 – And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

  277. I cannot comprehend the pain you must feel, Mr Picco. I am in awe of your humbleness & loving spirit to experience such an unbelievable loss. Condolences to you. May the Almighty God watch over you until that blessed day of His return so that we can be reunited with loved ones whom have rested before us.

    Prayer Warrior
    Auckland-New Zealand

  279. WOW!!!

    Ok, so I had to share this!!! ( your video)

    It brought tears to my eyes, but more importantly, it puts life into perspective!

    We all have our trials and tribulations. We rarely stop and ponder others’ lives, or take the time to put our own suffering into perspective.

    Until we find another soul dealing with insurmountable sadness or pain, we can tend to dramatize and/or focus upon our personal hardships in detrimental ways.

    As I felt the love and beauty within this video, I said a prayer for this new father. I can’t imagine…. There are no words to express my empathy or compassion for this man!

    I also realized that this video caused me to focus upon my own Blessings and to take time out to express gratitude.

    32 years ago, my second child was born at 30 weeks in a critical state. His lungs weren’t developed. He was underdeveloped and struggling just to stay alive.

    When we were both taken into emergency surgery, neither of us were expected to live. I was hemorrhaging, lost a lot of blood and was weak.

    I remember family and friends, by the droves, coming into my hospital room. I had to demand to be taken to the NICU because they didn’t want to allow me to get out of bed; nobody would tell me anything except that my son was “as good as could be expected”.

    Sitting next to the incubator in my wheelchair, watching a newborn struggle to breath, with countless tubes and machines attached to him… Well, I can’t tell you how that affects a Mother’s heart.

    We were both blessed. We both survived. Today, my son is opening a new restaurant. We are forever connected by the circumstances of his birth.

    This gentleman wasn’t as fortunate. He lost both his wife and newborn.

    The words that come to mind are “There but for the grace of God go I…”

    We never know the whys. We can only trust that God’s plan is far bigger and better than any we can conceive.

    I do know that, despite the loss that has occurred, this courageous young father has significantly touched a multitude of people. His music, his story, his testimony… can touch the hearts of all of us, causing us to reevaluate, to put things in perspective, and to find gratitude and praise! ❤️

    My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you! ❤️

  280. What a beautiful gift, your precious son and your amazing connection with each other. Thank you for being so gracious to share such a moment with the rest of the world. You have, together, as a very new family sent so much love for us to share.

  282. I am so sorry! Chris, you & your family are in my prayers!! Your lovely wife & precious son are in Heaven loving each other. GOD BLESS!!

  283. There are no words that can change what is done. Just know that this sadness affects us all. Inspiring but very sad. Hopefully in time the sadness will be replaced with memories of how incredible they both were. God bless your family and in time mend your broken heart 🙁

  284. My dear friend, I do not know you in person and it would be not correct to say that I know how you may feel these days, but I’d like to express my sincerest feelings for you and your familiy. The story you are telling to us is so emotional and sad. However I can feel the joy between the lines you may feel remembering every moment of the life of your little son and your wife. You may be blessed by the lord with a continuos happy life. The memories to your beloved ones will help you to be strong. I am writing this to you as a father of 3 children knowing how important it is to experience moments of love and hapiness with the most precious treasure we have on earth. Our children, wifes and familes. Sincerest Karsten

  285. I have no words to adequately express the sorrow and sympathy I feel for you, Chris. We don’t know each other, but I saw your beautiful video of you singing to Lennon, and I keep watching it over and over, crying as hard as I did the first time I watched it. Your incredible love for your son is so evident and I am so very sorry that you lost both your beloved Ashley and your perfect baby boy. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathies.

  286. Beautiful. Chris, there is a special place in Heaven for Ashley & Lennon.~ may love & peace carry you through.

  287. Dear Chris,
    I’m terribly sorry for your loss, and no words can describe how much I wish that your Ashley and Lennon were still with you. Ashley was a beautiful woman both inside and out, and I hope that you can take comfort in the knowledge that you will one day see her again, and the same goes for Lennon. Seek comfort with your family in this time, take the time to say your goodbyes-for-now, and I hope that God will be kind and not have you suffer this heartbreak too long. I wish you all the very best, and all my prayers and strength go out to you.

  288. i started to feel a pain in my heart while reading the story then listening to Chris sing to his baby boy i found myself sobbing- my heart is breaking for you and your family-i pray the Good Lord gives you the strength and peace in healing-in my prayers <3

  289. Praying for those who lost their loved ones’. God will surround you with his love and comfort at this diffcult time.

  290. Hi Chris, i though, that my live is painfull, but you shows me, whats really impotant in live.
    Best wishes to you. Head up, live suprieses every day. I am sure, you would be a great fahther or dad.
    Respect to you. You could be proud of that what you have done to your child with your gitar . Greetings from Germany. Be strong. You are not alone. Keep fighting like Michael Schumacher.

  291. May the strength of faith, family and friends help you through this tragic time in your life. my prayers and heart are with you in spirit. So sorry …

  292. I read this story in the news today, and heartbreaking does not even begin to descibe it…there are words for this level of tragedy and loss. Chris…you are a good Husband..and Father. Ashley is safely holding Lennon in her arms every moment now, and you draw on the strength of family and friends as much as you need. God Bless…

  293. I just read your story and with a heavy heart i send my condolences. I may not know you but we are all children of God. I pray that the Lord carries you in this time of pain. And that your sorrow will not last forever. Know that your wife and son will always be looking upon you. God bless

  294. Hi there,
    I’m so sorry for what’s happening to you …
    No one deserves to live that.
    May your wife and your lovely son rest in peace for eternity.
    Stay strong …
    Best regards.

    Ollie

  295. My heart and soul is broken for the pain you are going through. Your beautiful
    Wife and baby boy taken from your life. May God bless you and your family.

  296. Chris,
    I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t even begin to imagine what you are feeling at this moment. I read that you had mentioned your wife would’ve loved to be able to hold Lennon and bathe him, do things a mom does for her child; well she is holding him now I bet. I bet just like you did, she is with him in Heaven singing to him. I pray that God comforts you. It is so hard to understand why those we love have to die and we cry instead of being blessed. Just know that one day, you will be reunited with them. Peace be upon you.
    Stephanie

  297. This story is so so sad. I pray for you and your family. May God be with you and strengthen you during this unbelievably tragic time. I am glad you were comforted by your time with your son. He and your wife are now in the arms of the Angels, and will forever be together, as they watch over all of your loved ones. If I was near you I would give you a great big hug, cause I feel so much sympathy for you. Know that we are all praying for you.

  298. I know not your loved ones or do i know you. But in Gods name we are all brother and sister .So to you my brother in Christ i send my most deepest love and sympathy to you for the loss of your loved ones . I know not what it is like to loss the wife of whom you love nor the child of whom you love even for the short time he had on this earth.I can only imagine what grief you are going through.One i hope to never know. So with all said ,ild like to say i am sending my Prayers and love to you and your family. And remember it will only be a short time before you can hold the loved ones in your life one more time. Prayers my brother Doddridge county West Virginia

  299. Every once in a while in this crazy mixed up world we find ourselves in now, a story comes to light that saddens even the furthest away strangers from this couple and their newborn such as me sitting ten thousand miles away in New Zealand. I have read this story and remember back to the joy I felt of bringing my own children into this world with my wife. I remember the immense love felt for both mother and child and I personally know the what this loss would mean to you. It seems to me tragedy is all around us but we are shutting ourselves away from it. This has been a wake up call for me that I need to help more often with a more open heart to others. From Blenheim New Zealand Fire Service QFF Pete please accept my sincere condolences

  301. Chris,
    You were so lucky to have your precious son for only a few days. But he was much luckier to have a wonderful father like you, who gave him all the love that most people don’t see in a lifetime.

    May your dear wife, Ashley and Lennon rest in peace. So sorry for your loss. Matthew 5:8 For the pure in heart: for they shall see God.

  302. Hi Chris,
    just watched you singing to your boy, i ve been a single father for 3 years, my boy is 4 now, I dont know you but my heart and my thoughts are with you and your beautiful wife and son in these sad days .
    Tony

  304. I just saw the video [Chris singing “Blackbird” to Lennon] on Facebook. It was beautiful! Thank you, Chris, for sharing that intimate moment with the world. Ashley & you, and little Lennon are in my thoughts and prayers.

  306. I am sending light and love to the family and though I live in Rainier, Wa and only read this tragic story online,
    time and distance mean nothing, as we are all one!

  307. De tout coeur avec vous, votre amour témoigne énormément et nous fait découvrir l importance d aimer
    Courage

  308. You have my sincere sympathy and condolences on the loss of your wife and son. I cannot imagine losing any of my four children.

    What I have not seen is a explanation of what caused her to die after the C-section.
    Anyone know? Could it have been prevented?

  311. Dearest Brother in Christ, Chris: My heart is in such pain for the unthinkable loss you have suffered. Like many people here that have left messages of condolence to you, I don’t know you personally, nor did I have the good fortune of knowing your beautiful angel of a wife, Ashlee. Just please know that you’ll always have two beautiful souls to watch over you and protect you. I am thankful to the Lord for ensuring you his comfort in the days to come and am certain that you and your entire family will be blessed by his grace as you navigate a life without your beautiful wife (and daughter, aunt, cousin, friend and mother) and son, Lennon, at your side. You are in my thoughts and prayers today and in the future.

  312. I’m so sorry for your losses – your blackbird video is truly touching and I am praying for you and the rest of yours and Ashley’s family, time will heal, it always does and things are going to get better – I promise. You are so strong and inspirational, and I wish you every future happiness,
    Aisling Madden

  314. I am praying for this family. I too have lost 2 bbys before they were ready, but I thank God for my life. Thank you God for such wonderful and loving people who bring joy and beauty wherever they come and go. At least this family had the bravery to acknowledge GOD and PRAISE HIM for what He gave and now has in his presence! God bless the Daddy left behind!

  315. Im 36, Ive got a son, 1 year and six month, another child is on the way. Reading your story left me crying, shocked by what happened. I tried to imagine how i would feel, loosing all this in the short time. Only able to sing for your son before he really could take a step in this world.
    You really love your son and wife and im proud for what you do for them.
    All the best wishes Form germany. Please carry on…

  318. My Sincere condolences and I Pray to Almighty to give you all the strength and courage to overcome this Grief. *Jai Ganesha*

    – Bangalore India.

  319. C’est avec tristesse que je lis le malheur dans lequel vous êtes plongé vous et votre famille.
    Que dire en pareilles circonstances ? Si ce n’est que je suis de tout coeur avec vous, je partage votre peine, votre double peine.
    Gardez courage.. Je vous présente mes plus sincères condoléances.
    Christiane, de Belgique

  320. what a wonderful thing for such a tiny human being to hear before leaving your safe arms…beautiful music. Whether 30, only days old, or 83 years old…music can bring peace for the dying. My daughter did this for our dying mother and I truly believe this helped her pass on without fear…thank you for reminding us that the best gifts of love are so simple. As your video goes out to the world…we share your sorrow and will be thinking of you during this great time of loss.

  322. Chris,
    I sat and read your tragic story and as a father of a young child and it immediately bought me to tears, I am still wiping them away as I write this passage.
    I do not know you, in fact we are from different continents, but my heart and love go out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you find the strength to carry on and cherish the memories you have of your young family.

    With a sad heart,
    Sincerely.

    Adam H

  324. Chris, I too am a stranger to you. Your story has reached across the world and touched so many hearts. I found
    it on my Facebook posted by a very loving neonatal nurse. I just wanted to personally let you know that I am praying for a thick blanket of Gods comfort over you. I can not imagine your pain but know without a doubt that you are held in His arms. How glorious the day when we will again see the loved ones who have gone before us. Many, many blessings over you, Chris.

  325. Dear Chris… what a beautiful gift-in-song to give your wife and son. Thank you for sharing such a personal moment. Yours is a gentle heart and I pray that God’s peace and comfort will find you in the proper time.

    With Deepest Sympathy,
    Tony P.

  326. Dear Chris,

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife and your newborn son, especially as you were about to embrace fatherhood. May you find comfort in the warm and loving memories of your wife, and the special times you had together. And may you gain strength to help you through this extremely difficult time. My deepest thoughts, heartfelt condolences, and prayers go out to you.

    In deepest sympathy,
    Michelle L

  328. I don’t know what else to say; it has all been said before but I just wanted to tell you what a lovely, and sweet and private way to send your little boy to his eternal Father in heaven. May God bless you and yours……..:)

    Kind regards
    Angela

  329. It is so easy to see how loved you and your family are. My heart pours out for you. More than anything, be strong. Your wonderful wife and child are proud and smiling at the man before us.

  330. I am so sorry for your loss,I couldn’t imagine losing my family just like that,please stay strong and just know that u will one day see them both again together. Live the best life you can possible because I believe she and your son would have wanted that.prayers your way God bless and amen

  331. Dear Chris:
    May God continue to hold you up in His arms and give you strength as you go through this painful time in your life. All our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

  332. hi Chris,

    I am so sorry to hear of your loss of your lovely wife and beautiful Son. May Gods forever Love embrace your heart with His ever- present healing and comfort.

  333. God takes the amazing early so that they can be angels to look after us. I wish you all the best and thank you for sharing your story about two very special people in your life. God bless.

  334. Chris,
    What a beautiful tribute to Lennon and your wife to do such a beautiful thing. I’m a pediatric OR nurse and I cry for Lennon and every child I have lost in the OR. It never gets any easier to accept. I am so glad the NICU allowed you to sing to him. I’m sure he knew his Dad loved him so much.
    Lynda

  335. May the Holy Spirit comfort you and your family in this time. I couldn’t read the article further because I was overwhelmed with sadness. My heart goes out to you. I pray God’s peace and mercy upon you to give you strength in this season. I’ll keep you in pray. We will see them soon. I hope that gives you some peace.

  336. I cannot fathom the depth of your pain and heartache. I am sending prayers of comfort, peace, understanding and love your way.

    Sincerely,

    Penny J

  337. Just a truly sad and moving story. It reminds me and should remind us all that our grasp on life may be fleeting and to the make the most of it. May you find comfort as you can.

  338. This breaks my heart. My prayers for the family. I cannot imagine suffering such a pair of losses. I can only say that I feel certain that you will be reunited in a far better place and eternally experience the family joy that you missed in this life.

  339. Your story has touched me tremendously….I sit here feeling a fool because I have realized, to some extent, I have taken my life with my son for granted. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you & your family are feeling. My prayers are with all of you.

  340. Though I do not know you personally, my heart is with you. Rest in peace and love, Ashley and Baby Lennon.

  341. PLEASE DO NOT BE ANGRY WITH GOD. THIS IS JUST THE WAY THINGS ARE. AS HEARTBREAKING AS IT IS, THEY ARE IN PARADISE. WE ARE LEFT BEHIND TO GRIEVE. BUT GOD IS WITH THE BROKEN-HEARTED AND HE IS CLOSE WITH THEM. THIS IS A SAD STORY, BUT I KNOW ASHLEY WOULD WANT US TO TAKE THE GOOD WITH THE BAD. WE CAN LOOK AT THIS STORY AND BE THANKFUL OF ALL SHE HAS ACCOMPLISHED. I KNOW THIS HAS MADE ME REALIZE THAT AT THIS MOMENT, MY LIFE IS NOT ALL THAT BAD. I THINK THAT IS HOW SHE WOULD WANT IT. PLEASE PRAY FOR CHRIS AND THEIR FAMILY. SHE WOULD PROBABLY WANT US TO DO THAT TO.

  342. Hi iam sitting here in germany thinking of what i could write to you,perhaps any word what could soften the pain.
    But there isnt.NOTHING i can say….just sorry to hear about what happens too you.i wish live wouldnt be like that.i wish we could be all happy all arround the world without pain and fear.and none one of us should ever go trough this like you now.no one deserves that.it shouldnt happen.iam so sorry,my heart bleeds for you.

  343. I do not know you but your video and story has touched my heart and I am wiping away tears of sorrow, only imagining what you must feel. Keep God in your heart and the faith that you have seemed to carry during this entire process. Your family is in my prayers.

  344. My deepest condolences to your family , extended family to Ashley , Lennon , my thoughts with prayers are within each of you in this difficult
    May The Lord bless you will comfort , strength to carry y’all through

  345. My heart goes out to you ! Such a touching and inspiring story of love. May God watch over you ! God bless your wife and baby boy.

  346. Chris,

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  347. Sending our love and prayers from Australia, over the ocean to you. May God give you strength xoxoxo

  348. I, like so many, was touched by your beautiful lullaby to your baby boy. As a neonatal nurse, I can relate to your experience, and though I cannot imagine your sorrow and grief at this time, I do feel some of the pain of your loss. Your wife sounds like an amazing person and one whose absence will be felt. Many good thoughts and well wishes for you and your family. May time help to lessen the pain and leave you only with cherished memories.

  350. So sorry for the loss! Cherish that time when each was held close and loved. I wish we all could take a little of your pain and make this a little easier for you. Though we do not know each other my heart aches for all the loved ones hurting.

  352. You’re a truly remarkable human being. The song was as beautiful as the heart behind it. I wish you comfort and peace. God will take care you.

  353. May God gives you and your families the strength and encouragement as well…am still praying for you, too…
    Love you all….
    God bless you……

  354. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning Or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.
    Rev. 21:4

  355. Sincere condolences to you all on such an immense loss. Ashley and baby Lennon you will live on in the hearts of those lives you touched. Hugs & prayers Sonya xx

  356. Dear Chris and family,
    My deepest prayers and condolences go out to you during this unfathomably tragic time. Know that there are so many people touched by your strength and your hope and are keeping you in their prayers. I’m sure your beautiful wife and your little Lennon are happy to be together right now. Stay strong and don’t lose faith, not now or ever.
    Sending love your way, Arianna

  357. The spirit knows and I believe this woman and their son went on the next journey feeling all the love and caring from the husband and father. I am so grateful that he was able to spend those days with his son as he will have that to hold onto. I believe we were taught a lesson in love and I and so many others were so touched by this. God bless and help you with the difficulties you now will have to face . All our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family .

  358. May you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. Hold on to the love and joy you shared as a family.
    Sincerely,
    Lori-Ann

  360. May you all feel comfort in God’s arms and in the belief that you will see Ashely and Lennon soon!
    May you continue to keep all your lovely memories alive and find peace in His promises.

  361. I couldn’t watch the video, the story was enough to bring me to tears. My wife and I lost two baby boys who were born too early, a terrible loss. I cannot imagine the heartbreak you must be experiencing with the loss of your wife. I am so so sorry for your loss. You are a very brave man. I pray for peace in your heart and an easing of your suffering.

  362. Chris I am so sorry for your lost may God put his arms around each and every one of you all .You have 2 beautiful ANGELS watching over you and one day you will get to see Ashley and Lennon again.

  363. Hello Chris! I saw your video and the sad news about your lovely family in a Mexican Newspaper. You don’t know me and I don’t know you. But I am praying for you and your lovely son, wife and you. May all the love of god be with you. Be strong and always keep smiling. God bless you buddy. My very deepest simpathies.
    Dios te bendiga Chris.
    Oscar

  366. My heart aches for the loss of your beautiful wife and precious baby boy. May their memory bring you comfort in the time to come. Every one experiences and deals with grief differently. Take all the time you need. Find comfort in your love for them, their memory, and the love they have for you. Love never dies and endures all. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. You will never forget them or stop loving them, you will always miss them, but the pain will fade, and every reminder of them will be a welcomed warm reminder of them and their love. Hugs to you all.

  367. Such a beautiful tribute to a young woman who has touched so many lives. Reading some of the comments left by other people I can tell Ashely had loving heart and a gentle and kind spirit. In the short time she was here on earth she allowed God to use her to touch the lives of many people. She and her much wanted son are once again together walking the streets of gold with their Heavenly Father! Chris hold tight to the nail scared hand of Jesus through this painfully journey. Many prayers are being said for you.

  368. I’m sending prayerss to your and your family from Cleveland, Ohio. May you feel the comfort and healing of God’s arms around you. I am so terribly sorry. Neither Ashley and Lennon are alone; they are together waiting to greet you one day. My sincerest sympathies.

  369. This absolutely breaks my heart and I just wish there was some way to ease the pain for those these two beautiful souls have had to leave behind. I’m glad you’ll have your mummy there for you little one. I just wish you could have all got to live your happily ever after. I’m thinking of you all and sending positive, healing and loving vibes. May you all be blessed during and after your life on Earth.

  370. There is never “just the right word or words” that can be said to ease the terrible pain you must be going through, but always remember this; “never put a question mark where God puts a period,” and always believe there is a heaven. Godspeed to you and all of your family and friends…Steve

  373. Bless the beautiful wife for holding onto Lennon as long as she could. Prayers are with you for both of these lovely souls. Baby Lennon heard your music, every note!

  374. I can’t imagine what this family and network of friends and community close to them must be experiencing. Heartfelt condolences to all who are grieving.

  375. Chris, may God continue to carry you in His arms as you go through the valley of the shadow of death. Mine and my family’s thoughts and prayers are there for you and your family.

    Andy, Sue, Priya, Jon, and Suean

  376. Je suis en France, et votre histoire m’a ému. J’ai une pensée pour ce pauvre petit bout de chou qui n’a pas eu la chance de recevoir tout l’amour qu’il se doit. Et la maman qui n’a pas pû prendre son enfant dans ses bras et goûter au joie de la maternité. Satanée nature!!
    J’éspère que de là où ils sont, ils sont heureux…

  379. I lost my first baby August 1988. He lived a week and died. He died at Loma Linda. He was born with left hypo-plastic heart (no left side of his heart). I wish this little guy could have made it! He is with his momma now. 20 some years later you always wonder why, why did I or any parent have to endure this hardship!!! God bless all of you and what you are going through! My heart is heavy!

  380. Chris,

    I read your story on facebook and want you to know you are not alone. I had to find you to tell you that, so I hope whoever is reading these messages will pass this along to you.

    Our daughter, Ruby, was born early. I awoke to my wife bleeding badly. I rushed to pick her up and get her to the hospital. Ruby came. Things were not good for our baby, but mom was stabilized. They airlifted our daughter to another hospital. I left my wife to go and be with our baby. I held Ruby and sang her the song that had been passed down by my wife’s family: “Poor babes in the woods”. I told Ruby how sorry I was for her life. I gave her a lifetime of kisses, hugs, advice, praise, thoughts, and wishes from both my wife and myself. My wife never got to hold Ruby. Three years later we are still in grief. My wife went into such a depression that I almost lost her to suicide this last winter. We got her some help, and she is much better now; but the hurt never really is gone forever.

    Words cannot express my sorrow for you, because I know what you feel, or at least most of how you feel. The day we lost Ruby a nurse came and sat beside me. She told me she knew exactly how I felt. I looked up at her and said “Ma’am, I know you’re trying to make me feel better, but I don’t think you do know how I feel right now”. She smiled and replied “yes I do, you see, I lost my first baby as well”. The nurse went on to relate how they had brought a son into the world, and that there had been some problems and had lost him after a few days. The nurse then told me that in time I’d get past the loss of Ruby and have more children. I looked up and laughed and asked how she knew. She said because that is what happened to her. She had two more boys, both of them were handsome. I think she said that one was 6 and one was 8. She then explained, while still smiling that she had them until one day that a fire came to their house. The nurse then began to cry with me. She told me that neither of her boys made it out of the house. So, here was this woman who somehow knew what I was going through and found me to share her story with me. In this mega hospital, where I am sure she had patients to attend to, she took 15 minutes to let me know that I was not alone. I couldn’t possibly imagine what it would have been like to lose a baby until that day, let alone children as old as 6 or 8. It was the kindest thing that anyone did for me during that entire time. To let me know that I was not alone.

    So Chris, you’re not alone. You don’t know me, but I am so proud of you and how you conducted yourself in what will likely be the most painful memory in your life. From everything I have read, you are an outstanding gentleman, husband and father. I wish I had the right words to take some of the pain away, but I know there are none. I am so sorry for your losses, and for the loss to the world of your wife and son.

    Zeke Jackson
    Sister Bay, WI

  381. Your story is so incredibly heartbreaking! Having just had a baby myself, I cannot even begin to imagine your pain. At moments such as these, I think it’s pretty common to ask, “why?”. Forgive me if your wife’s cause of death has been announced or even known but I haven’t seen that and wonder how a 30 year old pregnant woman just dies suddenly!? I’m curious if she had any vaccines in the days before her death. It could be something to look at if the cause of death has not been discovered. My thoughts are with you. Stay strong. They are watching down on you!

  382. Hello,
    I am so sorry for your losses.
    There is absolutely no words to describe your feeling.
    No man deserves that.
    May your wife and your lovely son rest in peace.
    I wish peace for you and all your family too.
    Fred, Toronto, Canada

  384. Chris, I’m so sorry. We can’t know the purpose of our lives, but look at the people Ashley and Lennon’s lives have affected. Its amazing to see the outpouring of empathy and compassion your loving tributes have brought forth. No one will ever forget your song and those baby feet as well as Ashley’s dear face, knowing the sort of person she was. As someone who has lost loved ones, don’t be surprised if Ashley contacts you in the coming weeks and months. You’ll know the minute she does so don’t worry you’ll miss it. She’ll do it in a way that you will instantly recognize and it will give you peace. Its another way of being, and not way up there in the sky but right alongside us. Bless you as you begin the next chapter of your life and God bless Ashley and Lennon as they return home.

  385. Out of all the comments I don’t know you personally either but want you to remember that old saying’ it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
    Xxx

  386. Many prayers and thoughts go out for this wonderful family. Someone doesn’t need to know this family personally to sincerely greave with them. I cannot even imagine what a hard time this husband is going through but it certainly sounded like the mother lived a great life here on this earth and will always be remmeber along with the baby. During this hard time it’s important to remember God does everything for a reason and to keep faith, God bless!

  387. I am sorry but I do not think that the almighty god would do something like this. I mean seriously it is gods plan to take a mother and newborn and let murders and rapist live until they are old and ripe. Come on now that just does not make any sense at all. My son was born 2 1/2 months early but he did not make it because of gods plan, he survived because the doctors and nurses knew what they were doing and the care was top notch. That is called science.

  388. To Ashley, Chris and baby Lennon;
    We have at least 2 things: we both play the guitar and we both have a love of the Beatles. I, on the otherhand, have no idea how much you must be hurting right now. “Music heals all wounds.” I wish to God that were true but you know and I know it doesn’t. Sometimes it’s simply a filler to keep us from drowning in our own tears. Thank the Lord for that small favor. Regardless, please keep playing. Musicians know no other way. Cry those tears and play until the tears run dry. Then when your fingertips are raw, play some more.

    “I’m sorry for your loss” seems so inadequate to me at a time like this. I don’t know you nor you me. But please know that I am sorry for your loss as well as the utter, unspeakable pain and total heartache that you, your family and friends feel right now. Thank you to all of you for sharing with us. Ashley seems to me to be an amazingly beautiful and very loving woman indeed if you want to tell the world about her and Lennon. I honestly feel blessed for this. Thank you.

    Sending you all very much love, honor and respect I can. convey.

    May the Lord bless and keep you.

    Yours very truly,
    Renee Bartlett
    Colorado Springs, Colorado

  389. My deepest condolences for the loss of your wife and your son, be strong, trust God,
    from Spain I sent a hug

  390. Hello. I don’t know you, but I heard of your story on another website and found my way to this page.

    I am so, so sorry for your loss. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you must feel, but I hope these comments left by nearly 400 people expressing their thoughts for you can help to ease some of it.

  391. ı am from turkey.I’m so sorry for what happened.I did not know you or your family. I saw on the news site. I watched the video. I really cried. I will pray for your beautiful wife and baby angel.

  392. I am so sorry for you. When I read your story on Buzzfeed website, tears came. I can’t imagine….your grief. I will share your story… just to remember to people how life is so precious. Good luck…

    From Marc-André (Québec, Canada)

  393. Very sad to hear of your loss. I pray that God will give you strength and continued faith in trusting in Him. Thank you for sharing your story. I believe God will use your faith in the live of others. I also pray: God shower
    Your presence and love down on this family as they grieve the loss of their loved ones. And thank you for the hope You have given them. It means everything. Amen.

  394. There really are no words to make any of this better, but as I was reading the story I can’t help think that perhaps God decided that Lennon should be with his Mother. I know that seems harsh for you Chris, but now she can hold that baby in heaven and not be alone. You have people here on earth who love you very much and will surround you and take care of you until the pain eases. She went to a special place in the heavens and Lennon will be there with her and they will meet you with such love when it is your time. I am so very sorry for your losses Chris and I will continue to say prayers for you, Lennon and Ashley. Maggie

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